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I am thinking about not having children because I don't think that I want the responsability of being a father, but I am scared that I am going to be all alone in the future (lemmy.ml)

submitted 4 days ago by Confidant6198@lemmy.ml to c/comradeship@lemmygrad.ml

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[–] kredditacc@lemmygrad.ml 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I don’t know you well enough go know if you’re a good person.

The "you" in my comment refers to you, not me. Do you believe you're a good person? Do you believe you are well-adjusted, mature, and sane? Do you think you can live amongst society?

I’m sorry to hear about the situation you grew up in, and I’m glad to hear you’re doing alright.

I'm not here to collect sympathy. And you really should stop saying that to every unfortunate person you met. (At least to Asians, I don't know if Westerners would think differently)

Make sure you have a decent chance first.

This, I agree. With the words, not the spirit. By that, I mean that a responsible person would improve their own material condition to make their goals achievable, then they would go ahead and achieve those goals, sooner or later.

[–] Boomkop3@reddthat.com 1 points 2 days ago

The "you" in my comment refers to you

I don't see how that changes anything?

I'm not here to collect sympathy

You do you. I'll do me.

This, I agree. With the words, not the spirit.

I'm afraid I do not know of spirits in words. From what I can tell we agree. For "reading between the lines" and stuff like that you'll have to ask someone else.