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Ive wrestled with spirituality for a while now, and and don't know what to do? (lemmy.world)

submitted 3 days ago by Leax177@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I'm not sure if this is the right community to post in (maybe y'all can comment more appropriate ones if that's the case) but basically, I'm not sure what I believe in spiritually. While I believe in an afterlife and that my loved ones who are no longer here are there I'm uncertain If I believe in god, reincarnation, chakras, etc. I'm uncertain which religion to try to validate this belief that my loved ones are in a better place, but I know that I want life/spiritual guidance, community, and inclusion (both as a Queer person and a general outsider.) I just need some help figuring this part of myself out, is there anyone I can talk to about this? What should I do?

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[–] electric_nan@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Nothing says you have to believe the same thing everyday, or even moment to moment. Think of your spirituality as kind of story, or a painting, or a song that you sing to yourself. Wouldn't it be boring to sing the same song every day? There isn't just one "greatest" song/poem/story/painting because you can't fit all human experience or emotion into just one of them. I like to treat spirituality this way. Play with your relationship to life's mysteries. Make an art of it to entertain and comfort yourself.

To be clear, I have some core values that I don't change, and these inform my politics and how I interact with other people. When it comes to things like death, "the meaning of life", the origins of the universe etc, I'm most comfortable with fluidity.