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parents, were any of you not understanding/unaccepting of a certain group (ex: lgbt, neurodivergent) but became more accepting once you found out your kid was part of it? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 1 week ago by Pa55i0n@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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husband and i are both autistic, so we were always very accepting of others. we’re also both bisexual, my husband being almost exclusively gay except for when it comes to me.

when we found out our 15-year-old leo was gay, we were very happy for him and we told him that he was still our leo we loved.

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[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

No, my kids are certainly diverse in sexual preference and one is transgender, but I didn't have any sort of unacceptance. I grew up around drag queens and "theater people".

Maybe in the other direction, honestly - I didn't see the trans one until they literally came out by telling me, my conception of womanhood is so broad that my kid looking like a 40 year old butch lesbian did not ping any trans radar so I was surprised when they said they wanted to be a man. Not mad or anything but it took awhile to process.

Nobody else has had to "come out" or worry about the race or sex of who they are with, they can bring home whoever they are going out with and we don't blink, it's fine.