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Just a reminder that Reddit was once difficult for people to understand.
To be honest though, I'm a bit disappointed by the other users here. The quality of comments is really poor, both idiotic and adversarial. I'm talking fox news comment section level.
That's weird because people here are super fun and clever according to my experience. Of course the debates are seldom in-depth but it's still interesting and eye-opening for the most part.
I would love to create a group chat to analyze right-wing rhetoric, underline its hollowness passed the racism and ethnocentrism and generally talk about books that are interesting. Social emulation to go further in political science as a passion ! I need to make that group someday
I've been seeing waaaay too much unwarranted vitriol and anger in comments lately, for things that really aren't that big a deal (like Linux vs windows) and I find it disappointing. As a community we should want Lemmy to grow, and yes that does mean we will get more "normie" posts, but imo that's good and if someone doesn't like it they can use more niche community spaces, which there will be more of with a larger userbase.
lemmy, reddit and such types of forums are literally made for this kind of discussion.
i do agree people should tone down with the unjustified anger a bit.
LOL, Linux vs. Windows flame wars are literally as old as the World Wide Web, and UNIX vs. DOS flame wars are even older than that. Welcome to traditional Internet culture, undiluted by normies.
(Also, I would argue that copyleft Free Software vs. proprietary software riddled with spying, ads, and other user-hostile dark patterns is a way bigger deal than you're giving it credit for, but that's a topic for a different thread.)
Push back when you see it. Remind them that we have a chance to reset, and they don't have to act the same way here that they did on reddit.
I honestly don't believe this at all.
Snapshat was popularized by a generation that grew up only using apps, and it was designed to be obtuse, mysterious and difficult to learn in comparison to other apps as a feature. It grew regardless.
Yeah so is reddit. The best moderation and engagement in fediverse typically exists in the highly moderated communities that people constantly complain about not respecting their freeze peach and antisocial tendencies.