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Remember no politics! LGBT people's lives can be different because the world isn't LGBT inclusive. We all face challenges, but LGBT people can face particular ones... what are some of them?

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[–] Flubo@feddit.org 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I am sorry you feel that way. You really dont owe any doctor a success story. You are beautiful just the way you are.

Can you move or at least make holidays somewhere where you can dress as you like, to regain a bit of confidence?

[–] hazl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Thank you 💙 I do feel quite silly for thinking these things, especially when the solution to all of it is to just stop caring and live my life. Just go. Do it now. GO! Nope. Still nothing.

Unfortunately I have reached the final financial brick wall, however all I need to do is pick myself up, change the name atop my résumé, and hurl myself back into the workforce. Aaaaany day now.

[–] Flubo@feddit.org 3 points 1 week ago

I think you are too harsh to yourself. Its not just doing whatever. Doing these things change a lot for you and you do not know how people around will react. Its totally understandable that you are blocked doing all these things although it will most probably make you feel better. It needs a lot of courage i think. If at some point you do it you can be really proud of yourself! I hope this moment is sooner than you think and i hope you have or find supportive people in your area.