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[–] MotoAsh@lemmy.world 2 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

No, you're getting downvoted because you're only responding to the parts of posts that you want to completely deny instead of engaging with other details.

Now, either continue to prove my point that you're either bad faith or immature to the point of lacking self awareness, or respond to the other points made like how several ways to sort don't even factor in votes like the default "active" or new comments, etc, or how some people actively seek out the controversial posts.

[–] JubilantJaguar@lemmy.world 1 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Yes yes, I take the point about the sorting-algo choices and karma absence and so on. I acknowledged it in another comment.

My fundamental point (which you are ignoring) concerns the motivations and incentives for downvoting. My contention is that downvoting thoughtful and well-expressed opinions is always (always) toxic and unhealthy. Others don't see it that way. So be it.

[–] MotoAsh@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

Nah, I wasn't ignoring your fundamental points. I was discussing a tangent related to why you were being downvoted specifically. I find keeping to one topic at a time greatly increases someone's chance of actually reading and understanding it.

I agree in the general case that up/down votes are far too coarse and uninformative, but sometimes it's pretty obvious why someone's getting an upset of votes.