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[–] LadyButterfly@reddthat.com 20 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Had this recently on lemmy! Someone pointed out a grammar error in my post title and I explained I was neurodiverse. Another user mansplained how to use apostrophes and lectured me on it not being an excuse. I politely pointed out the issue is not being able to see properly on a white background and issues distinguishing characters etc. So he just didn't reply.

Like I've never been taught at home, school, googled it, picked it up from other users etc. I needed his patronising wisdom!

[–] frenchfryenjoyer 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Aw I'm sorry that happened! sounds really frustrating and some people will nitpick anything. Lemmy is the only social media I've been on which seems to be mostly men. it's a little alienating sometimes!

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Yep I'm guessing it's cos it's techy people heavy. Lots of men in tech after all

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 1 points 2 months ago

The funniest thing there is that techies are absolutely terrible at communication. Just read any manual written by an average techie that's supposed to explain how their technology is supposed to be used. Ignoring spelling and grammar errors (which can be sizable in number!) the ability to actually organize information in ways that can be followed is decidedly lacking.