We are a women's only community, so please no male comments.
Edit: thanks all for reporting the hostile remarks! You really are an amazing group of people. Really appreciate how positive so many men have been as well. I see you all and value you ❤️
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You do realise not every man hurt you right? We have feelings too you know, attitudes like this is exactly why suicide in men is so high at the moment
oh is it my turn now?
ahem...
please read the rules. Women's only community.
Sorry about how you're feeling, I do sympathize, but please share it elsewhere.
I don't care if it's a women's only community, the double standards is disgusting, how do you think it would go down if I went online and posted that I hate all women and want them to suffer because I had a couple of bad experiences
Thanks so much for popping by! We are women only and keep this a positive community so I've had to ban you. All the very best 💘
I will break the rules too just to reply to you. She does not use the word "hate" even once AND she starts avoiding generalizing by saying "these men"... and here you are taking it personally, so I can just assume that you are one of "these men", further proved by how you come to a women's only space and then disregard their feelings/needs, thank you for proving their point.
Of course you don't care. You're a man! You simply must be heard. Especially when your precious fee-fees are hurt. We all know, after all, how fragile and emotional men are, what with all the hormones coursing through their bodies turning them into unreasoning, quivering piles of fraught emotion!
This whole thread and community is a bad solution to a real problem.
great opinion from someone who's never ever commented on any post in this community save to complain about it being exclusionary after it pinged on the Upset Male Radar
I don't sympathize anymore.
Suffer how? Suffer from the consequences of your own actions? Fine! Let every person on earth answer for their crimes against others.
Women have been walking on eggshells among other horrors for 99.9% of recorded history for no reason, but we haven't had the privilege until very recently to call it out. Men have to suffer consequences by witnessing the harm of their own actions for .00000001% of history and expect everyone else to weep for them. Either take some responsibility or shut the fuck up and let us have our fucking MOMENT of justice.
Your neeeeeeeeed to be heaaaaaaard is Not Our Problem
Don't worry. If he goes another five minutes with more than two living women not worshipping his dick (one if his mom is dead), he'll kill random strangers until it's our problem.
Im getting popcorn. You're great.
Maybe every man needs a good reminder why hurting others is wrong. If some don't hurt people they have nothing to worry about. Maybe those who are so resistant to seeing positive change have heavy burdens they are carrying and should look inward instead of outward.
Very cool.
This isn't the place for your feelings. You were, in fact, asked explicitly to not comment. Why the fuck did you think you were entitled to?
Do you have literally any self awareness?
Don't actually answer any of that here. I already know the answer. I think the idea of this place was for it to be a place women could talk about stuff without being dogpiled by subhuman filth, and not need to spemd rhe entire conversation explaining incredibly basic ehit to 'people' who are determined to not understand it.
Tell you what, edit that comment with a link to an explanation of all your feelings. Promise I'll be nice.
If it makes you feel any better, it's actually a result of psychological warfare in a post-mutual destruction world.