It's incredibly invalid.
If a 5 year old asks me about war I don't need to describe in detail violently murdering people or give an hour lecture about military strategy or make idiotic analogies to more complicated topics. I can choose an age appropriate response that explains it good enough for their age. It's really that simple.
Also, my dude, gay relationships are normal they are just less common. They are not "abnormal". Words have subcontext attached to them. Throwing big words around while "agreeing" with people and watching them react negatively is probably your first indication that your communication needs work.