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[–] LadyButterfly@reddthat.com 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)

See my comment below, there's more to that when you look beyond the social media campaign

[–] Ajen@sh.itjust.works 31 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Nothing that Depp did justifies what Heard did. You're defending an abuser right now.

[–] LadyButterfly@reddthat.com 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Did you read my comment below?

[–] Ajen@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Yes, it sounds like you're saying her behavior was justified because of things like Depp's past relationships and his association with Hunter S Thompson.

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

No, I'm not and I said I don't like a lot of her behaviour. I just believe Depp is abusive.

[–] Ajen@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If you aren't trying to justify her actions then what's the point of bringing up Depp in the first place?

[–] LadyButterfly@reddthat.com 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That Depp is the DV abusers, and she got labelled unfairly

[–] Ajen@sh.itjust.works 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

she got labelled unfairly

You are defending an abuser.

[–] LadyButterfly@reddthat.com 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I see it differently, but thanks for the discussion. I've realised you're male, and we are women only so please don't comment again. Thanks for popping by though ❤️

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm female, and feel fully the same. You are defending an abuser.

[–] LadyButterfly@reddthat.com 1 points 1 day ago

Where have I defended her behaviour?

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 2 points 1 day ago

They're both toxic arseholes who trapped each other in a feedback loop