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Non-single people, how long have you been with your S/O? (piefed.social)

submitted 1 day ago by olivergarden@piefed.social to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I have been with mine for 2 years <33 My beloved.

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[–] juliebean@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

i envy ya'll with concrete dates. my partner and i have been together somewhere around 10 years. we've been talking off and on about getting officially married, partly to have a precise anniversary lol

[–] dubyakay@lemmy.ca 1 points 7 hours ago

Before we got married I figured this out via contextual chat logs and pictures.

[–] thevoidzero@lemmy.world 6 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

You can just choose a day and go with it. As long as both of you agree, and it's approximate it's fine. We just count earth going around the sun, it's divided arbitrarily, and Earth's never going to be in exact place anyway.

[–] GaMEChld@lemmy.world 5 points 14 hours ago

Yeah, at some point I just chose my cat's birthday since we only had a ballpark age from the shelter.