First date Feb 7, 1987
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Nice. I thought my 1991 was old but you're doing very well.
Partnered for 8yrs 4mo
lived together 8yrs 9mo
known each other 8yrs 10mo
Met in 1984. Engaged around 1986. Various hardships ensued. Purchased house together in 2000. Married in 2004. Kid in 2009.
if I'm reading this right, you hooked up with your roommate? That's a bold strategy, Cotton.
Yep! My best friend's sister, too ๐
33 years, our 31st anniversary is in November.
Hello my love <3
Hehe hiiiii
Shit. Y'all too sweet to be real
32 years ๐ด๐ป
Coming up on 7 years married, probably about another 2 maybe 3 years together (she seems to think we were dating for a while before I realized it, I'm kind of dense)
We were friends for probably about another 2 or 3 years before that, and for probably about that long again before that we kind of recognized each other as friends-of-friends but only ever bumped into each other in-passing and didn't hang out.
Together for 22 years, married for 15.
I was going to say that's a long time, then I realized I'm not too far behind! 18/13 for us.
Shit goes fast yo. Like Tom Waits says- Fall in love and get married then boom; How the hell did I get here so soon?
One partner 8 years, the other 4. Still just as deeply in as love!
April 29, 2009
We met two days before. Three months later we were engaged, a year after that we were married. No regrets.
19ยฝ years
41 years. We got engaged two months after we met, married five months after engagement, and are still going strong!
i envy ya'll with concrete dates. my partner and i have been together somewhere around 10 years. we've been talking off and on about getting officially married, partly to have a precise anniversary lol
You can just choose a day and go with it. As long as both of you agree, and it's approximate it's fine. We just count earth going around the sun, it's divided arbitrarily, and Earth's never going to be in exact place anyway.
Yeah, at some point I just chose my cat's birthday since we only had a ballpark age from the shelter.
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7 years. Time flies..
1 week now, lol
together for 4 days I think??
Together for a little over 9 years, married for about a year! ๐
Bit over 25 years.
We've been married eleven years, but together for about twenty three. He's still putting up with me, it's wild!
25 years, or at least by the date we sort of agree on the first year is a little fuzzy lol.
It'll be 25 years this week!
20 years together, fourteen of them married.
Together for 16, married for 11 or 12
Our first official date was opening night for the Nic Cage movie The Family Man. Married 3.5 years later.
11 years, married for 2.5
We're hitting 10 years married this October! 11 years together.
10 years since June and getting married this coming September 27th
27 years together, 24 married
Coming up to 20 years, 17 years married.
22 years, been married for ~18 by now... Married twice, to the same woman, first time for the paperwork (that was called a Registered partnership, legally the same as marriage, with a slight difference in the type of "contract"), second time (actual marriage) for the party. Second wedding was 15 years ago
6 months !
15 years together, married 13 next month.
Coming up on 6 years in October!
20 years this Christmas, married for 15. Still my favourite person to putter around with.
13 years. Married for 6.
First two years were mostly long-distance.
5 years! We're not really sure of the exact date cause ADHDยฒ lol we go with October cause shopping for Halloween decorations was our first date ๐
Holy shit y'all make my relationship feel young. 5.75 yrs
11 years ๐ฅฐ we are both 29 years old
A year and a half, a year, and a month, in order of duration :3
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