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[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I think the idea is that an emotionally mature man would be able to recognize how he hurt you, or at least be able to respond to that question with a certain level of maturity and reasonableness even if he is not aware how he hurt you.

Meanwhile, the implication is that an emotionally immature man is likely to blow up at you or otherwise react poorly when asked to explain how he hurt you.