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My family moved from Mainland China to the US in around 2010. I was a kid so I did not have a choice, but I do remember being excited about it. When I got here, things were rough, language barrier, and ptsd lingering from my abusive older brother made it hard to socialize, I didn't have much friends. So I didn't like it too much at first, but I did like how there were just so much more trees even in the city (I mean not really city-city, more like suburban ourskirts of a City, Brooklyn I mean), air feels cleaner in the US, my mother thought the same too. I've grown too used to western media, I can never live in Mainland China ever again, the only options for me are now mostly other western countries lile Canada and Australia. As for the US, I liked it until November 2024, now it feels like a foreign army has invaded the country, doesn't feel very like "America" anymore. But I still prefer the US to Mainland China, even as of today.
My parents, even though they are PRC-Sympathizers (to clarify, they're NOT communists, just "homesick" I guess), never seriously talked about wanting to go back, dual citizenship doesn't exist in China, and my mother already got US citizenship so I don't know if PRC even restores revoked citizenships.
Was it worth it? I mean... idk, but I definitely had access to more entertainment content than I ever could in Mainland China, so in that aspect, yes, absolutely. I don't think I could've ever tolerated China, I mean, being practically the only person who has a sibling would be very weird (I'm the second child in my family born during one child policy), Hukou situation is messed up, Toxic Masculinity is 2x worse, massive corruption problems, food safety problems, child abductions/trafficking that authorities don't care about, the infamous 豆腐渣工程 (tofu-dreg)... it mean its absolutely just cooked.
(But then... November 2024 happened... So yea, the US is becoming like China all over again. Jesus christ, my life is torture, pretty sure this is a simulation and this is some High-Tech torture chamber by the Galactic Empire.)
TLDR: I wished it was Norway instead, but I'll accept US over mainland China.
Hey, i am commenting here because it's for OP... how did they get that chick flair? 🤔