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[โ€“] Kolanaki@pawb.social 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Socializing and hanging out with people.

[โ€“] mysticpickle@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 week ago

"Socializing" as in just hanging out and asking people about their day is awkward AF for me. I need there to be some other kind of activity being the primary focus with talking being secondary or I'm going home.

Board games are particularly good for this. There's usually turns so when you're not actively doing stuff so you can chat with other folks if you feel for it. If you're not feeling particularly chatty, you can just quietly analyze the board state and figure out what you're planning to do next.