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I want to hear your (preferably real) reasons you got fired.

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[–] Furbag@lemmy.world 7 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Jesus fucking christ, that's incredible. I don't know what any of that software engineering stuff is, but based on your description of events, it just sounds like a waking nightmare.

If it makes you feel better, companies like that where upper management are quick to throw people under the bus for their own fuck ups are usually not long for this world. They'll continue to make bad decisions and the effects will be felt both downstream with low employee morale and retention rates, as well as commercial loss for the company. You are much better off being valued for your work elsewhere.

[–] phutatorius@lemmy.zip 8 points 4 days ago

I did a lot of consulting. Companies like that include well-respected, well-known firms. They are so profitable that they can afford to have utter shit management in non-core functions.

Thanks, basically take it as you do something well, and they hire you because you do it well. They ask you to do the thing you do well, you build out plans, you build out solid options, write it all up and present it all. Then your manager who has about 4 months of experience doing what you do for a living tells you that he doesn't like it, and that you should do it in the worst possible way forward. You don't get a say. Then it all rolls from there.

It does make me feel better. I do know that morale tanked after I left. Not me being self centered, I've had multiple people tell me that there was a noticeable drop in morale because people knew it was bullshit. They had to have several meetings saying "They didn't fit our culture" but my colleagues weren't stupid. They knew who I was and what I was like, they knew it was a political move. I don't expect they'll all leave because of me or anything, but I do hope that it's just the first couple rocks in an avalanche.