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[-] 13esq@lemmy.world 17 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Everyone judges, it's how you act upon that judgement that is the mark of your character. Anyone that says "I don't judge" is either full of shit or means that they are self aware of their biases, conscious and subconscious and don't act upon their judgements.

Judging people is a natural part of being human and impossible to not do.

[-] modeler@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

And to add to that, all the characteristics listed their green flags - characteristics used to judge people.

[-] Rockslide0482@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 year ago

I would just append that judging people is a good thing, often blanket misinterpreted as a bad thing. You should make an initial judgement upon meeting someone (it doesn't really matter, your subconscious will anyway). The important part is being willing to update that judgement based on learning more.

[-] Riven@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 year ago

I've spoken about this with my girlfriend. She mentioned that we shouldn't judge a book by its cover and I get what she was trying to say but everyone judges and to a certain extent everyone should judge. It's how you act upon that initial judgment and your willingness to append it that shows your character.

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