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Any Parents Here? (lemmy.world)
submitted 10 months ago by Tedrow@lemmy.world to c/autism@lemmy.world
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How do you guys deal with parenting? My wife had work events all weekend last week so I had to be on point 100% and then continue to all week. Now this weekend we had a girl scout hike and my wife wanted to go to a special event with me in the evening. I haven't had time for any real solitude for two weeks and am mentally/emotionally drained.

How do you guys deal with this? I feel like a bad parent/partner for not being excited for these things or feelings negative about doing them. Am I expecting too much from myself? I don't know, thanks for reading anyway.

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[-] Crystalizts@startrek.website 5 points 10 months ago

Investing in a nanny or babysitter to relieve you of duty periodically for even an hour or two is the only thing that keeps all of us sane.

I wish there were more resources for parents instead of the assumption that two people can handle the well being of a child

[-] Remmock@kbin.social 3 points 10 months ago

Look at Moneybags here able to afford a temporary caretaker.

[-] Tedrow@lemmy.world 3 points 10 months ago

That is good advice, but definitely out of reach for a lot of people.

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