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submitted 1 year ago by MicroWave@lemmy.world to c/news@lemmy.world

Perhaps you’ve noticed. We have reached a tipping point in the country over tipping.

To tip or not to tip has led to Shakespearean soliloquies by customers explaining why they refuse to tip for certain things.

During the height of the COVID-19 pandemic, customers were grateful for those who seemingly risked their safety so we could get groceries, order dinner or anything that made our lives feel normal. A nice tip was the least we could do to show gratitude.

But now that we are out about and back to normal, the custom of tipping for just about everything has somehow remained; and customers are upset.

A new study from Pew Research shows most American adults say tipping is expected in more places than it was five years ago, and there’s no real consensus about how tipping should work.

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[-] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

It is of you decide they can starve over it.

Wanting them to work somewhere with they are paid fairly does not equate to that you have no problem with them starving.

[-] PhlubbaDubba@lemm.ee -4 points 1 year ago

It does when you don't tip them.

[-] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

No, it doesn't.

You can wish the best for them, and want them to have a happy and healthy life, and not tip them when they don't do anything deserving of a tip.

[-] PhlubbaDubba@lemm.ee -2 points 1 year ago

Deserve ain't the metric when they're being paid below a living wage.

You're arguing they should provide five star service and suck your dick to "deserve" not needing to choose between heating and electricity that month.

[-] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world -1 points 1 year ago

Deserve ain’t the metric when they’re being paid below a living wage.

The two are not connected though either.

You’re arguing they should provide five star service and suck your dick to “deserve” not needing to choose between heating and electricity that month.

No, I'm not. Please don't put words in my mouth, especially emotionally hyperbolic ones.

[-] PhlubbaDubba@lemm.ee -2 points 1 year ago

Nah, when you're saying you don't have to tip in these times that's exactly what you're saying fuckin' moocher.

[-] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Nah, when you’re saying you don’t have to tip in these times that’s exactly what you’re saying

That's not what I'm saying. Stop being emotionally hyperbolic and putting words in my mouth, its intellectually dishonest of you to do so, and loses any credibility for the point you are arguing for.

For the record, tip someone if they have earned it, or if you feel sorry for them as a form of charity, but not because you are obligated to do so. Let the company they work for pay them a living wage, its not the customers responsiblity to do so.

fuckin’ moocher.

So mature. Carry on, Internet Warrior.

[-] SRo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 1 year ago

Cool cool cool - so we have the solution. After everyone who got bamboozled to work a job without compensation starved the tip crisis is over. Problem solved; just wait it out.

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