10
submitted 11 months ago by bot001@aussie.zone to c/melbourne@aussie.zone

Welcome to the Melbourne Community Daily Discussion Thread.

you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[-] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 7 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I should be taking this opportunity to do the tasks that are more difficult with kitty around but am still really not feeling good physically or mentally. Sitting around pressuring myself about a hobby that should be fun, putting myself through the wringer in the hope that doing it will help me cope with the rest of life. Because in my current state this hobby is the most do-able.

I'm feeling guilty about Melbcat. It feels like my bad health is letting her down and despite all my efforts I'm just having to wait for answers or help while watching it deteriorate.

[-] underwatermagpies@aussie.zone 6 points 11 months ago

Sometimes simply resting is all we can manage, and that's ok. Try to give yourself a bit of grace- always hard!

[-] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 3 points 11 months ago

so many hugs

so do things about your hobby that are easier. Like watching all kinds of art youtubes, watch everything to do with your hobby. Go to an op shop and buy every book on art you can and browse them.

I admit I'm really pleased I watched many many many hours of videos on the art, it gave me a depth of knowledge and I learnt many tips. It was definitely not a waste.

[-] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 4 points 11 months ago

I've been looking at and saving many references and art tutorials, that is a low energy way to do it and is training my eyes to notice details. But it's making my eyes much better than my hands, so it's easier to see flaws in my inexperienced techniques.

That's apparently a thing. Your work can suddenly look worse to you as your eye improves :/

[-] Seagoon_@aussie.zone 2 points 11 months ago

So stop looking at your old work!!

Or, look at your work as a progression of skill. ๐Ÿ˜Š

[-] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 2 points 11 months ago

I'm very efficient - I can hate it as I'm doing it ๐Ÿ˜‚

this post was submitted on 01 Dec 2023
10 points (91.7% liked)

Melbourne

1865 readers
75 users here now

This community is a place created for the people of Melbourne and Victoria. We are a positive, welcoming and inclusive community. We might not agree about everything, but we always strive to stay civil and respectful.

The focus of our discussions is based around things that effect Victoria, but we are also free to discuss our local perspective on wider issues. Or head to the regular Daily Random Discussion thread to talk about anything.

Full Community Guidelines

Ongoing discussions, FAQs & Resources (still under construction)

Adoption Certificate for Nellie, the Daily Thread numbat (with thanks to @Catfish)

Feedback & Suggestions

founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS