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You can believe what you want to believe, you didn't say it in a hateful way at all.
I'm curious about what your opinion would be of trans people going through HRT though. When starting hormone therapy you are warned of potential changes to your sexuality. I am transfem, and prior to transitioning I was bi. Since starting HRT, I tend to have an aversion to men sexually and am more lesbian aligned now.
I guess that is fluidity and environmental factors, but biological factors even still.
Other people meanwhile experience the opposite effect (which is what I expected) or none at all.
Not who you asked, but I feel it's more of a social thing in myself. HRT has biological effects, but I don't think I'd be doing it in the first place if gender wasn't such a construct to begin with. I believe the sexuality changes are mainly social as well. There's the transmasc meme that T makes you more gay, but I don't think it makes us gay so much as make us more attracted to gay/bi men who actually validate our gender identities, whereas pre-transition, many of us avoided straight men who simply viewed us as female.
Not op, but I went a bit through HRT, then desisted (primarily because of financial issues, then because I didn't identity with the opposite sex anymore). IMO transgenderism is understandable because many gender norms seem socially constructed, but transexualism (including HRT and surgeries) is a mental disorder or a maladaptive coping mechanism or immaturity leading to people not actually understanding and not accepting their bodies function, and I believe social contagion is true. It is pretty concerning minors are allowed to HRT since they bodies including their minds didn't fully develop yet (which goes until age ~24). There's a ton of detrans who regret going through transexual procedures.
I don't think this has anything to do with you going through HRT. It just shows how your natural hormones and nature are still strong enough to do what is natural. It's just immaturity; time went and you matured, even with HRT. Most natural women are actually attracted solely to men in comparison.
Statistically its a microscopic portion a fraction of 1% who regret transitioning which tends to suggest social contagion isn't a thing either.
Statistically its a microscopic portion a fraction of 1% who regret transitioning which tends to suggest social contagion isn't a thing either.
I tried searching for scientific articles but didn't find a source on this 1%. Could you share a scientific source on this?
I don't see how they are causally correlated. I just say from personal experience... that if I wasn't exposed since my pre-teen years to LGBT I would likely never think transitioning was a thing and as such would not have pursued that. Today I see it was just a waste of time and money trying to transition.
1% regret it and a small number of those actually go on to reverse it.
https://apnews.com/article/transgender-treatment-regret-detransition-371e927ec6e7a24cd9c77b5371c6ba2b
What studies are these? There's no reference.
Also, it's pretty crazy they're doing this on teens and crazier that their parents are allowing that. Like, do you really think teens have the maturity to comprehend what are the consequences of this in the long term? I don't think so even if some doctor gives them a paper to read, just as I was given.