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submitted 10 months ago by Stamets@lemmy.world to c/adhd@lemmy.dbzer0.com

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[-] LazaroFilm@lemmy.world 112 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Sits at the computer, opens mail app… Anyways, let’s first check Lemmy. Oh! A post that describes exactly what I’m doing! I’ll just reply to it first then I’ll do the email.

[-] Garbanzo@lemmy.world 34 points 10 months ago

Hey, it's been almost 20 minutes, whatcha up to now?

[-] LazaroFilm@lemmy.world 39 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

My wife is the best!!!!!!!!!!!! I did write it in google docs. But I can’t send it somehow.

[-] peopleproblems@lemmy.world 14 points 10 months ago

Man, your wife is a keeper.

My ex would say "you'll figure it out".

Then ask me later to send one for her, and get mad that I say I can't right now, I'm focused on work.

Then she'd forget to wrap presents. I would have too, to be fair, but I kept them in my office for a month so I always knew they needed to be wrapped. Still wrapped them Christmas eve, but the point is I didn't forget.

It was a terribly unhealthy relationship, and her offering to help induces far more jealousy than one might expect.

[-] LazaroFilm@lemmy.world 10 points 10 months ago

Sounds like it was a toxic relationship, glad you got out of it. She may not be a bad person, just not the right one for you. Did she also have ADHD?

[-] peopleproblems@lemmy.world 6 points 10 months ago

Yeah she did. There was a lot of other stuff that I don't have details on.

Not "out of it" yet. It feels like the divorce is taking forever, and because we have a son anf no job with benefits I can't just kick her out. My mistake was thinking after she cheated on me 4 years ago that we could save it.