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this post was submitted on 25 Dec 2023
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I just think about all the times that getting mad actually helped the situation in any way at all.
I mean, in some situations, getting mad is the correct response, but I find that to be extremely rare.
After getting mad, the situation is usually still just as shit but you're even more upset and you've probably upset some other people around you too.