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[-] DillyDaily@lemmy.world 2 points 8 months ago

That feels like a large payout for that type of injury, but that's not my business.

Everytime I hear news like this, or stories of people who "receive support for xyz injury, but can still do abc activity so must be cheating the system" I can't help but think how brightly it highlights that the author has never had to experience chronic pain and dynamic disability.

Anyone who has ever injured anything knows, some days it just randomly hurts more than others, and you have very little control over predicting or changing that randomness other than through avoiding certain activities when you can to preserve your health and energy for days and times when you don't have a choice and have to perform that action.

It's also about balance.

Because of my wrists I can't do the dishes and do latch hooking on the same day. I have to do the dishes, I can't just live in squalor. But some days I also "need" to take some time for latch hooking because it's a mindful hobby I find enjoyable and it's so good for my mental health.

Now is it wrong of me to tell my OT that my wrists mean I struggle to do the dishes and latch key, so I'd like support with the dishes - maybe I get a dishwasher, or a helper twice a week to come in and do the heavy dishes for me.

If I'm sat on the couch doing my latch hooking putting pressure on my wrists "just for a hobby" while the dishwasher runs in the background - was I lying about my injury? Was I being a cheat? Do I no longer deserve the dishwasher because I'm "abusing it just so I can run off and have fun latch hooking"

She tossed one Christmas tree at a one off event.

How does that change the pain it is causes to play with her kids or carry groceries every single day that she wants and needs to do those tasks?

[-] derf82@lemmy.world 5 points 8 months ago

She clearly exaggerated her claims. The article says “The constant pain in her back, neck and thoracic spine left her unable to lift groceries, do chores or play with her two children.” Yet she can toss a Christmas tree, and win the whole competition? She can play with a dog for over an hour, but can’t play with her children?

She tried swinging for the fences for the largest payout and missed. She may vey well experience pain, but once you start lying, where does the lie stop? If she wants a payout for a dynamic disability, that’s what she needs to claim

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