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[-] somtwo@lemmy.world 38 points 8 months ago

As an ex-christian, the most un-christlike behavior is often espoused by Christians.

[-] sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 20 points 8 months ago

As the saying goes: one bad apple spoils the barrel.

I think most Christians are fine, at least the Christians who understand and try to follow Christ's teachings, it's just the few "Christian influencers" or whatever that are a pox on society. I try to distance myself from them as much as possible, and encourage the rest to be better examples.

[-] caveman@lemmy.ml 13 points 8 months ago

Well, militants are always annoying, be they Christian, lefties, Righties, vegans, meat eaters or whatever

[-] echodot@feddit.uk 11 points 8 months ago

It's because they craft their entire identity around that particular thing. It does not matter what the belief or how illogical the belief, if you question it, or are simply not prepared to go along with it, they get really angry and incoherent.

[-] caveman@lemmy.ml 6 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

I mean I know people who are vegan or religious or atheist which are not annoying, but as you said some people make it a huge part of their identity and it sucks.

[-] jjlinux@lemmy.ml 4 points 8 months ago

That's exactly right. Most of them have no capacity for critical thinking whatsoever.

[-] watson387@sopuli.xyz 2 points 8 months ago
[-] jjlinux@lemmy.ml 2 points 7 months ago

That would be an accurate assessment, yes.

[-] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 3 points 8 months ago

I feel called out as a Linux user

[-] jjlinux@lemmy.ml 3 points 8 months ago

I somewhat agree with you. The problem is that all those bad apples are the loudest of the bunch, which is why people, understandably, try to avoid all Christians like the plague. I did too for MANY years, until I was the target of a miracle myself. But that didn't change my behavior towards people, I still treat EVERYONE with respect, and as kindly as I am able to (sorry, still human, so not always possible, lol).

[-] sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works 6 points 8 months ago

The same is true with Muslims as well. A lot of people in the west dislike Muslims generally because of the relatively small percentage of extremists, yet the Muslims I work with are fantastic people. My coworker (Christian, I believe) married an Iranian woman (Muslim), and said the people in Iran are generally quite awesome, it's just the minority who is in power that causes the problems.

In general, most people are pretty chill, regardless of religion (or lack thereof). So please, if you feel like a stereotype is accurate, go out and meet people from that demographic in real life (not on SM), and you'll likely realize most people are good. It doesn't really matter what the demographic and stereotype are, most people don't fit it.

[-] jjlinux@lemmy.ml 4 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

I have a bunch of friends, coworkers, employees and business associates that are Muslim. Some live in my country, some in the US, Egypt, Pakistan, Kazakhstan, Irak, all over the place, and all of them, without exception, are amazing people, super humble, can take jokes, even about religion, and are incredibly respectful of everyone else regardless of any perceived difference. My family and I went to the New York side of the Niagar Falls for New Year of 2019, where we know absolutely nobody. When we got to the AirBNB late at night, my wife and I went out to buy some water, some food for breakfast the next day, and everything was closed. We found a small store that was open and when we walked in we were greeted by this guy originally from Iran, Muslim. We started talking like we were friends for years. Before he left he offered to make us dinner the following night. I'm Dominican, and I have yet to meet someone as nice and outgoing as this guy and his family. We met almost every day for the 2 weeks we spent there, and I am grateful that I met them. We had an amazing time. I'm sure there are some nasty people out there, just like there's a bunch of nasty people everywhere and from all walks of life. Bottom line is that we can't tell who is who just by race, religion, nationality or any of those things. Take the time to know the person, more times than not, you'll be grateful you did. I'm sorry, I'm feeling really hyped with this thread. You guys have restored some of my lost faith in humanity. Thank you very much.

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