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Looking for emotional support: I lost all my WhatsApp chats
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this post was submitted on 21 May 2024
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It's going to take some time. I've been there as have plenty of people who came to me for support when it happened to them.
While right now you're thinking of it in terms of loss, you can also celebrate the lightness that comes from not having the data anymore.
There's more..
What was the funniest thing you remember that was in there?
Now consider that you remember it. You don't need to check, you remember the things that made that memory funny.
So, take a deep breath, add it to the list of stupid things you've done to date that didn't kill you and then go and drink a glass of water and go for a walk.
This too will pass.
For years after my son’s suicide I backed up our texts. From one daily android update to the next, phone after phone. I always bought a phone that I knew I could root so I could ensure the ability to restore these backups. Then I got careless during one rom flash and lost them. It was a huge weight lifted when that happened. I realized that I had never once gone and reread any of them since the week after his death. And the constant backing up caused so much stress.
I'm only 25 and it feels like so many of the things I have are just memories. It feels like my life is slowly coming to a close and I don't know if the future is even there.
And you know what the worst part is? I don't really remember much anyways.
My 20 year old cat died and all I can do is remember him and look at pictures. I don't want to have to remember things just to keep them.. I'm just not reliable enough.
No idea if you'd enjoy it but I've been keeping a (digital) diary since 2018 (in a .txt file) and for me it's really fun either checking out what I did this day last year (two, three years ago) and also randomly reading around. It's a really nice addition to having photos (and my dreams would be to somehow combine the two, easily). So many things I'd never remember without this, like the one time the electricity went out for a afternoon in my town. I'm just writing a few sentences each morning of what I did (ate, worked, watched, felt, thought) yesterday each morning.