Did Ross cheat on Rachel in Friends? (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 year ago by HardlightCereal@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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[-] riodoro1@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

I guess if you’re viewing your relationship as a form of restriction.

[-] deft@ttrpg.network 4 points 1 year ago

i think it is more like emotional distance?

its creepy to intentionally not be with someone else after a breakup because there is some weird lingering feelings. like get over it move on

[-] riodoro1@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

One day after breakup you will have some lingering feelings and hooking up with someone else just to suppress them is not a healthy reflex I think. Especially if the other person doesnt know youre with them just to strike a “hit” and feel less shitty with yourself.

[-] HardlightCereal@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

I've been in breakups where I immediately got with someone else and I've been in breakups where I wanted to take some time on my own afterwards. Feelings are complicated and there's no right answer to every situation.

[-] Blamemeta@lemmy.world -1 points 1 year ago

It's not healthy, but rebounds are perfectly understandable. Like getting drunk alone after a break up

[-] SCB@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

No I view being dumped as something that makes me sad and getting laid as a shot in the arm that cures the sads for a little bit so I don't become a mopey fuck

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