Dating apps are garbage. Never had success with them. They're designed to keep you on the platform for as long as possible, so if you find someone you're obviously not going to continue using it. You'll never find love on a dating app.

The only way to go is organically. Like you implied, you need to go out and meet people. One thing that works for me is to always put on a smile in public, even if you're miserable (I know I am). It's makes you more approachable. In my last two relationships I didn't even have to do anything because women asked me out. That's how I met my current lover, and we've been living together for 4 years now. But for what it's worth, I'm attractive too. A solid 8.5.