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[-] madcaesar@lemmy.world 130 points 3 months ago
[-] RecluseRamble@lemmy.dbzer0.com 75 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

People call stuff like Lemmy, 4chan or Reddit social media too but to me it's always these Facebook or Instagram style self-presentation platforms. All of them suck ass.

[-] spread@programming.dev 41 points 3 months ago

I'd categorize these as forums rather than social media. I mean there isnt that much socializing happening around here

[-] Birch@sh.itjust.works 20 points 3 months ago

Neither is it on social media anymore, it's all just dick measuring, scams, MLMs, attention seeking and hating on outgroups now.

[-] metallic_z3r0@infosec.pub 10 points 3 months ago

I call it asocial media, personally.

[-] Saledovil@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 months ago

Anti-social media.

[-] Honytawk@lemmy.zip 8 points 3 months ago

Forums are also social medias

[-] madcaesar@lemmy.world 6 points 3 months ago

True those are definitely worse

[-] jjagaimo@lemmy.ca 7 points 3 months ago

One thing I'm not a fan of is the argument that "it is what you make of it," because platforms act entirely differently depending on the other users, the algorithms, methods of interaction, interface, content and culture. Its very difficult for me to to have a good time on facebook because it fails in a lot of those aspects: toxic users, algorithms tbat push nonsense, a bad interface, incompatible content and culture. The general theme is that many social media sites end up being very polarizing and echo chambery.

[-] edryd@lemmy.world 24 points 3 months ago

Envy has existed far longer than social media, none of these things would go away if social media doesn't exist. Social media just amplifies it.

Comparison has always been the thief of joy.

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[-] MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 9 points 3 months ago

Communication is a good thing.

But that's not what most social media facilitates. The mainstream platforms were about staying in touch with friends and family, once, but now they are about parasocial celebrity worship and broadcasting your life in a fake light of endless positivity. All the while secretly hating the habit of feigned contentment, never realising everyone else is doing the same.

Social media could be about sharing our passions, forming real and meaningful connections with other individuals around the world, as well as truly coming to know ourselves as a species on a global scale.

Some small parts of it are exactly that.

Those are the parts I'm trying to perpetuate and nurture, and though they are a tiny part of the whole thing right now, it does mean it isn't all bad.

[-] Paradachshund@lemmy.today 96 points 3 months ago

I think this lesson can be valuable but I also feel like it can be flippant to the point of implying everyone's situation is equally bad or good, which is very dismissive of those in truly bad positions in life.

[-] stebo02@lemmy.dbzer0.com 19 points 3 months ago

especially since this comic includes a poor dude and it goes like "at least his dog is still alive", bruh

[-] chunkystyles@sopuli.xyz 12 points 3 months ago

Verging on toxic positivity.

[-] Microw@lemm.ee 4 points 3 months ago

Judging what a bad position in life is is pretty subjective.

There are some we can probably all agree on as a bad position, but none of those portrayed here fit those.

[-] absGeekNZ@lemmy.nz 95 points 3 months ago

Comparison is the thief of joy

[-] ByteOnBikes@slrpnk.net 62 points 3 months ago

Nah that would be Bill, who stole my bottle of Joy when he house sat.

[-] thisbenzingring@lemmy.sdf.org 41 points 3 months ago

buy it in bulk my dude, just use any ol squeeze bottle. Those bottles of Joy are easy come easy go

[-] lugal@lemmy.world 20 points 3 months ago

Did you really buy these, thisbenzinggring, or should I call you by your real name, Bill?

[-] anemoia_one@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 3 months ago

Especially easy go when Bill’s over

[-] ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.works 92 points 3 months ago

I too drive with my cellphone in one hand and my gut in the other.

[-] Empricorn@feddit.nl 88 points 3 months ago

Cars can be parked!? Big if true...

[-] SzethFriendOfNimi@lemmy.world 43 points 3 months ago

Or LA traffic. Which, now that I think about it, is the same thing.

[-] explodicle@sh.itjust.works 6 points 3 months ago

Metro is the way

[-] blandfordforever@lemm.ee 14 points 3 months ago

I ride a motorcycle and can confirm that most drivers use this method.

[-] CluckN@lemmy.world 44 points 3 months ago

Then it cuts to the dog using social media looking at skeletons.

[-] yumpsuit@lemmy.world 42 points 3 months ago

sobbing over my phone because I couldn’t stop a friend from pairing full-bodied red wine with lobster

[-] BarrierWithAshes@fedia.io 34 points 3 months ago

This is like that other comic about 'girls only like guys who treat them right' (i dunno the name) but actually good.

[-] Sam_Bass@lemmy.world 31 points 3 months ago

Grass is brown all the way around

[-] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 18 points 3 months ago

You know you're fucked up when seeing things that are happy makes you sad and angry.

[-] WilderSeek@lemmy.world 3 points 3 months ago

Yeah, the last three panels actually bug me (though for different reasons).

[-] barkingspiders@infosec.pub 14 points 3 months ago

This hit me just right today. Good reminder to be grateful for what we have.

[-] Damage@slrpnk.net 11 points 3 months ago

One of these is not like the others

[-] feedum_sneedson@lemmy.world 6 points 3 months ago

Ha yeah everybody is miserable.

[-] mesamunefire@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago
[-] andrew_bidlaw@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

I find this sad yet soothing song very fitting.

We all lost our hearts
Trying to feel good

Unkle - Persons & Machinery (feat. Autolux)

[-] Kowowow@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 months ago

Oh is there a im14andthisisdeep instance now?

[-] brbposting@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 months ago

What’s 14 about a such a common issue countless adults face?

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