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I just realized that a lot of my personal improvement in understanding the formation of romantic relationships can be described as discerning the boundary between what's common and what social norms require. When there were too many things that are in the common category but were not known by me to be in it, I could not always be myself, and I had a narrow view of the acceptable paths I could take (which was especially bad in my situation with girl 4, in which none of the truly socially acceptable paths (including abandoning the situation) were part of what I thought I could do).

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Project Pansystellar will create a documented system, currently referred to as Pansystellar, which will guide a person's thoughts and behavior to solve some foundational problems related to willpower and social connections. Simplicity and concreteness are being ambitiously pursued.

It involves:

Recall and analysis of personal experiences
Introspection
Using and simplifying existing advice
Ambitious problem solving with a systems approach

The origin of Project Pansystellar is my own experience and a desire to harness its intellectual potential by sharing my mindset and gained wisdom in a way that allows anyone to replicate it. I now also want to address problems that are not part of my own experience and to continue the evolution of my mindset.

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