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What opinion just makes you look like you aged 30 years

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[–] TaygaHoshi@lemmy.ml 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Single player modes in games shouldn't require internet connection.

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[–] TheBaldness@beehaw.org 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I'm not subscribing to anything. If I buy something, it's fully functional, and it's mine. There is no ongoing relationship between me and the manufacturer. Done.

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[–] Glokosame@beehaw.org 7 points 2 years ago

I don't want to have a subscription for everything. It used to be possible to pay a one-time fee for software and use it as long as I want. Now I have to pay a monthly fee and once I finish paying, I can't use the software anymore. And it's not like I constantly get updates for the software. Often it stays the same for months or years.

I understand that software has a price, but no way these prices are sometimes justified...

[–] Elbullazul@lemmy.ml 7 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Cars shouldn't be loaded with user-facing technology. Bring back analog dashboards and buttons for climate control!

[–] StringTheory@beehaw.org 1 points 2 years ago

Bring back stick-shift, too. People shouldn’t be driving if they have no grasp of the mass and inertia of their car. We should be able to disengage the engine at will. And we should have to pay attention when we drive.

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[–] TheDude@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It was totally uncool to remove the headphone jack from my device, man.

[–] sanpedropeddler@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 years ago (4 children)

I doubt you'll find anyone here that disagrees with you. I was going to get an older pixel but I got a 6 instead and I'm still grieving the loss of my headphone jack.

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[–] Npenplz@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Smart tech in general is annoying and dumb. I want my TV to just be a tv with inputs, I don't need built in firmware and updates to shove ads in my face. I don't want my car to have a touch screen to adjust the A/C, just give me a knob or buttons.

[–] LemmyAtem@beehaw.org 2 points 2 years ago

I DO NOT WANT MY TV TO HAVE A FUCKING CAMERA OR A MICROPHONE

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[–] psysok@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Music in restaurants and bars is just too loud. I know why the music is loud, but I am still going to shake my fist at it like Grandpa Simpson.

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[–] orbit@beehaw.org 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

GIVE ME BACK MY DAMN 3.5MM HEADPHONE JACK ON MY PHONE!!!

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[–] CrownCrafter@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago

Digital privacy is important, and it's important to be anonymous on the internet

[–] LinkOpensChest_wav@lemmy.one 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Algorithms that try to suggest me content are universally bad, and all searches should provide results based solely on the terms, syntax, and language entered. Same with anything that tries to provide me content based on data harvested about my location or demographic.

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[–] hellfire103@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I have three:

  • They don't make things like they used to
  • We don't need all these damned computers in everything
  • Modern music sounds like crap

I'm 17.

[–] nodiet@feddit.de 1 points 2 years ago (3 children)

I think two out of those believes stem from survivorship bias. You think of old music and consumer products as superior because the only ones that "survived" are the good ones. No one remembers bad music from 50 years ago, and for every old thermos flask/blender/knife that you see around there are dozens that broke years ago.

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[–] frippa@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

You should be able to repair your own things, without too much money and effort

[–] neo@lemmy.comfysnug.space 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Things should be made to last and not be made to intentionally break after a short time.

[–] 0xc0ba17@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

how is that a boomer opinion?

[–] Mr_Grumpy@lemmy.fmhy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

Many of the younger generations seem to accept that things don't last/break easily. I come from a time where there was a wiring diagram for the TV pasted on the inside back cover. Washing machines and other devices often had the schematics included. Repairing your stuff and keeping it running was the norm back then. Even if you couldn't, you probably had a neighbour who could. Planned obsolescence is a relatively new thing.

[–] comfy@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago

Basically any opinion of the modern Internet I give.

I'm a certified computer expert, but I sound like a Luddite when it comes to anything mainstream.

[–] 1337admin@1337lemmy.com 2 points 2 years ago

Sneaker culture is incredibly weird. Shoes made by children in China with a limited edition color are in such high demand that there are sites where people refresh F5 constantly hoping to have the honor to pay hundreds and hundreds for shoes that cost $7.50 to make. Then half of the time people won't even wear them outside, they'll put them in a bag and change shoes when they get to work or whatever. Or some might not even wear the shoes at all and just display them.

I'm an old soul in this sense. I love a quality goodyear welted shoe, and made in USA, UK, or Italy usually. An Allen Edmonds strandmok is a fantastic everyday shoe for me. I like to purchase nice things in general, use them, take care of them. I really hate throwaway culture as well.

Please nobody hate me for this, I'm a bit self conscious being an admin of my own instance and don't want to piss people off haha. If you're into gym shoe culture that's awesome. If I knew you in real life I'd probably make fun of you for a minute if I saw you walking outside in socks carrying your $400 limited edition sneakers, but then you can make fun of me for one of the thousands of things I do and it's all in good fun.

[–] aronkvh@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

:) or πŸ™‚ is nice and not passive-agressive

[–] Fearofthefamiliar@beehaw.org 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Cities are too car-oriented

[–] t0fr@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I agree with the sentiment, but this feels like the least boomer opinion ngl

[–] iam8bitwolf@beehaw.org 1 points 2 years ago

I use an iPod and physical media for most of my music

[–] lvxferre@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

When I was a kid, I could go out and play with other kids on the streets, without fear of being snatched or hit by a car or worse. We made Judas ragdolls before Easter just to burn them, and use them for practical jokes. We used to play some child version of cricket, I've even broke a window of a neighbour doing it.

Children nowadays do not do any of those things dammit. What the fuck? How exactly are you growing up without leaving home? For some it's lack of desire, but for most of them it's outright lack of possibility.

Screw this shit. The world is becoming worse.

[–] TauZero@mander.xyz 1 points 2 years ago

Do not share your name online.

[–] MDKAOD@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

We don't need a meeting for everything. It could have been an email.

[–] Steve@lemmy.one 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Dating should go back to face to face meetings. People need to get out and see others more, just generally.

[–] elouboub@kbin.social 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

No thank you. I can barely stand hearing somebody through a wall, why would I want to see them too?

[–] FUsername@feddit.de 1 points 2 years ago

Because dating hopefully takes place with individuums, to whom this limitation does not apply.

[–] SpookyBogMonster@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

Physical media is superior. Don't get me wrong, I love the convince of being able to stream any song I want, whenever, from my phone. But you don't actually own that music, not even the digital music you bought.

So having that physical backup is good. But also, it's just a fundamentally different experience, to have to put a record on a turntable, or a tape in a cassette deck, and listen to an album from back to front.

[–] raresbears@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Phone bad.

Like they're objectively pretty useful but I find the experience of using one to just kinda suck and I avoid it as much as I can. I'd much much rather use a laptop or ideally my desktop if that's at all possible. No idea how some people manage so much time using their phones

[–] Hagarashi8@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 years ago (2 children)
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[–] gzrrt@feddit.de 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Alcohol is toxic, carcinogenic garbage and we'd be noticeably better off if everyone voluntarily stopped drinking it.

[–] Lunar@slrpnk.net 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Anecdotally, this is a position I've seen held more often by young people than by boomers. Not sure what the statistics are exactly, but regardless it would be nice to see a cultural shift away from alcohol.

[–] LinkOpensChest_wav@lemmy.one 2 points 2 years ago

I hold this opinion because I've watched family die from alcoholism, and I myself am a recovering alcoholic. It's a miserable way to go.

[–] sup@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

As a person who works in tech and is an early adopter for almost every new gizmo out there, I feel that we were better off back in the day when stuff was all analog and things were done manually.

Sure it was inconvenient, but it made us experience the world more and actually interacted with real people. I have crappy social skills and I have seen the change in myself over the years. I get anxious when my phone rings now, as opposed to being excited back in the day.

[–] sw4nky@lemmy.one 1 points 2 years ago

This makes me think of a quote by Kurt Vonnegut:

β€œI work at home, and if I wanted to, I could have a computer right by my bed, and I’d never have to leave it. But I use a typewriter, and afterward I mark up the pages with a pencil. Then I call up this woman named Carol out in Woodstock and say, β€œAre you still doing typing?” Sure she is, and her husband is trying to track bluebirds out there and not having much luck, and so we chitchat back and forth, and I say, β€œOkay, I’ll send you the pages.” Then I go down the steps and my wife calls, β€œWhere are you going?” β€œWell,” I say, β€œI’m going to buy an envelope.” And she says, β€œYou’re not a poor man. Why don’t you buy a thousand envelopes? They’ll deliver them, and you can put them in the closet.” And I say, β€œHush.” So I go to this newsstand across the street where they sell magazines and lottery tickets and stationery. I have to get in line because there are people buying candy and all that sort of thing, and I talk to them. The woman behind the counter has a jewel between her eyes, and when it’s my turn, I ask her if there have been any big winners lately. I get my envelope and seal it up and go to the postal convenience center down the block at the corner of Forty-seventh Street and Second Avenue, where I’m secretly in love with the woman behind the counter. I keep absolutely poker-faced; I never let her know how I feel about her. One time I had my pocket picked in there and got to meet a cop and tell him about it. Anyway, I address the envelope to Carol in Woodstock. I stamp the envelope and mail it in a mailbox in front of the post office, and I go home. And I’ve had a hell of a good time. I tell you, we are here on Earth to fart around, and don’t let anybody tell you any different.”

I really believe that part of the loneliness and lack of community many people feel nowadays can be attributed to automating everything for convenience. We miss out on these brief interactions and meaningless smalltalk, giving us less chance to practice our social skills in low-stakes situations. I see the change even in myself; in my college days I didn't really experience much social anxiety since I was always surrounded by people, but now I sometimes find a quick trip to the grocery store somewhat difficult. It's really troubling to think about, and it makes me long for the analog past.

[–] croobat@lemmy.world 1 points 2 years ago

Notifications fucking suck, if it isn't either my alarm or my grandma's emergency button, my phone ain't gonna do a damn thing to alert me.

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