Is it normal to feel attacked and attack when argue on the internet? (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 1 day ago by bkr78658@sh.itjust.works to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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I rarely feel attacked when I talk with people in person. And we all take people feelings into consideration enough so no one is trying to attack anyone.

I was not actively commenting on social media since I was 13. But when I joined Lemmy i saw the statistics only 1% of people are actively posting and commenting on social media. And since I knew I was in 99% of people who are only consuming and really wanted Lemmy to take off I tried to be more active.

But now I find myself way too often attacked and attacking. And I always judged people that are attacking others on Xitter or Facebook.

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[-] boredtortoise@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago

Debates need multiple consenting participants, so arguing unprompted from out of nowhere is bound to gather annoyance

[-] Tja@programming.dev 1 points 1 day ago

That's a terrible opinion and you are dumb for thinking it!!1!

[-] AsudoxDev@programming.dev -1 points 1 day ago

You need to grow some thick skin if you are going to interact with people on the internet.

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this post was submitted on 14 Nov 2024

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