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[–] Elgenzay@lemmy.ml 69 points 2 months ago (25 children)

There was a good comment by @pjwestin@lemmy.world the other day on an angry anti-.ml post:

Before joining Lemmy: "It really doesn't matter what instance you join, you'll be able to see content from all over."

After joining Lemmy: "So you've enlisted in .world, eh? Welcome to the fight, soldier!"

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[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 51 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)
[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 50 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Solidarity amongst all instances.

Our fediverse comrades.

[–] FeelThePower@lemmy.dbzer0.com 47 points 2 months ago (3 children)

dbzero on top. even after beefing with and being banned from another instance the admins let us stay federated.

[–] alcoholicorn@lemmy.ml 47 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

.ml banning the dbzero admin instead of defederating will never not be funny.

"The users are fine, it's just the admin"

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 14 points 2 months ago (7 children)

Wasn't that Hexbear that banned dbzer0? Or was that also Lemmy.ml?

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[–] Arcturus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 2 months ago (2 children)

dbzer0, lemmy.zip and lemm.ee have all been consistently great.

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[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 37 points 2 months ago (3 children)

The reason corporate social media sucks is its monopolistic nature. “Instance wars” are why lemmy is better than reddit, which consists of exactly one instance.

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[–] Empricorn@feddit.nl 32 points 2 months ago (1 children)

There's 2 things I can't abide: intolerant communities and the Dutch.

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[–] clot27@lemm.ee 31 points 2 months ago (5 children)

I am just a chill lemm.ee guy

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 12 points 2 months ago

Being yourself? Rad as fuck.

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[–] Lennnny@lemmy.world 28 points 2 months ago (1 children)

It kinda pisses me off tbh. It's like that friend that has to keep telling you how boring the movie is when you're just trying to sit and watch it. Like, stfu and go away then, stop trying to be a crab on the bucket for the rest of us.

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[–] AlexWIWA@lemmy.ml 27 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I’ll be pretty annoyed if world and ml break up. I just want to scroll and they’re most of the content.

[–] SoleInvictus@lemmy.blahaj.zone 25 points 2 months ago (1 children)

If everyone on .world just blocked a handful of people, the issue would disappear. It's mostly a small number of shitheads using a common "enemy" for attention and power.

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[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 27 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Hey drama is part of social media, it drives engagement plus we are hashing out this place should work. Also power tripping mods sub is great, solid discussions

[–] davel@lemmy.ml 33 points 2 months ago (3 children)

it drives engagement

Defenestrate corporate media framing. There are no advertisers to market social media “engagement” to. We are not the product. In fact there is no product, just as there is no customer.

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 15 points 2 months ago

It attracts new blood. People need to be posting and commenting for a place to have a future.

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[–] sytone@lemmy.world 24 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Is there a federation map somewhere so you can see what instances are federated with each other and which are not?

[–] NutWrench@lemmy.ml 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Yes.

https://federation-checker.vercel.app/

This link lets you type in an Instance name and it will tell you what other Instances allow it and which ones block it.

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[–] drascus@sh.itjust.works 21 points 2 months ago (4 children)

I am so out of the loop on this. People care about what instance they are on?

[–] Uebercomplicated@lemmy.ml 34 points 2 months ago (31 children)

Yes! It's a sad, sad world. It mostly has to do with people's political opinions on moderators, i.e. ".ml are tankies" and ".world are right-wing normie fascists" or something like that. I have never — literally never — witnessed a .ml mod doing something I thought was bad. I have also seen only one tankie since I joined .ml. I have witnessed some kind of conflict between .world and .ml everytime single time I open Lemmy though. Kind of depressing. I wish we could make less of a deal of an issue that, all things considered, seems pretty small. Ah well, that aside, Lemmy is still great, it will just take time to mature — like all social platforms in their beginnings!

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[–] Scrollone@feddit.it 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I don't care at all! Greetings from Italy!

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[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[–] badhops@sh.itjust.works 19 points 2 months ago (1 children)

all i know is sh.itjust.works

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[–] surph_ninja@lemmy.world 17 points 2 months ago (6 children)

From what I’ve seen, a lot of the toxicity is trickling down from the powermods. Same issue migrated from Reddit.

[–] aramova@lemmy.world 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Probably some of the same powermods doing it

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[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 17 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Ideally the network corrects by users moving away from the drama instances so they don’t get randomly cut off.

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[–] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 16 points 2 months ago

Anyone unironically surprised by this? Lmao

[–] ConstantPain@lemmy.world 14 points 2 months ago

Who could have guessed that trying to bring together people with opposing views would generate so much attrition...

[–] Grandwolf319@sh.itjust.works 11 points 2 months ago (8 children)

If instance A and B block each other, can a user on instance C still see all the posts from B and A?

What worries me is the drop in posts if things fracture.

[–] Jyek@sh.itjust.works 11 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Instance C is unrelated to A and B blocking each other. Why wouldn't it be able to see posts from either unless it was also blocked?

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[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 11 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (4 children)

Given your concern. I would recommend joining a instance with as few defederations as possible and blocking instances yourself. You don't need a admin to determine what you want or need to see with your experience here on lemmy.

Block instances/communities/users yourself and make it how you want. Or not. It's your lemmy, use it how you wish. Peace.

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