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[โ€“] Kolanaki@pawb.social 50 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

Video game specific communities. Like any random game that is even semi-popular has an active sub on Reddit. Even the most popular games in the entire world rn don't have much activity, if they even have communities, on Lemmy.

I would rather argue the motivations of a souls boss than politics or what the best linux distro is ๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ.

[โ€“] Stovetop@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I would rather argue the motivations of a souls boss

Miquella did nothing wrong.

[โ€“] Kolanaki@pawb.social 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Honestly, the only thing I don't condone him doing is literally giving up his love. How can he be a benevolent god without that?

[โ€“] Stovetop@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I feel like there's probably about 50 different directions that one could take that idea, and the story very clearly paints that act as a Bad Thingโ„ข to have done.

But to play devil's advocate (just because I have also been missing this type of discussion), one could argue that experiencing love would compromise Miquella's plans for his planned age of compassion. An age of compassion would be one which treats everyone equally, to try to universally end worldly suffering.

Love, on the other hand, is what allows one to play favorites, and is also something that cannot really be controlled. Having a stronger attachment towards some people over others because of love would result in discontent, and sabotage the type of egalitarian compassion Miquella wanted to create.

Marika's reign became rocky because there were conflicts between those she favored and those she shunned. She absolutely played favorites, and did not love everyone equally. Her solution to break the cycle of suffering was to simply remove death from the world entirely, but as we saw, that just ended up making its own whole host of problems.

So I think Miquella was trying to avoid making that same mistake of favoritism we saw under Marika, but ended up making another mistake which could have been just as potentially consequential as his mother's decision to shatter the rune of death. A dispassionate "compassion" wouldn't really be compassion at all.

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[โ€“] tauren@lemm.ee 47 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Active posts that aren't about linux or politics.

[โ€“] Blaze@sopuli.xyz 10 points 1 week ago

Have a look at the pinned post on !communitypromo@lemmy.ca

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[โ€“] RyanDownyJr@lemmy.world 38 points 1 week ago

The amount of content was nice from reddit. Eventually, I'm sure this platform will get there.

[โ€“] Witchfire@lemmy.world 36 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Active communities that aren't about Linux

[โ€“] invertedspear@lemm.ee 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Active communities, period.

Reddit started out without subreddits. Eventually grew too big for that so split into topical channels. Then the channel would get too big and a niche would subdivide out. When Lemmy started, or more so when there was the first big exodus from Reddit, all of that was recreated, but without the users. So we have a ton of dead communities that really need to be rolled up and cleaned up.

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[โ€“] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 29 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[โ€“] Irelephant@lemm.ee 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I feel like largely we're fine for comments. Most posts, even on dead comms, get a good few comments.

[โ€“] LostXOR@fedia.io 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I like the comments here a lot more. Reddit's comment ranking algorithm mostly prioritized highly upvoted comments, so the top comments on every thread would be the earliest ones, and anything much later would be lost in the sea. Here new comments get ranked higher than older ones even if they have fewer upvotes, which gives them a lot more visibility.

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[โ€“] pdxfed@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

I just had my first thread that I came across today, after nearly 2 years here, that was collaboratively funny, creative, diverse and made me remember what lots of talent in a thread can do. Not just anti-establishment/political circle jerking, or a few tech categories that get enough visibility to get participation.

It was a /mildlyinteresting thread about giraffes being more likely to be struck by lightning. It immediately made me feel like I was finallly home again after 2 years and looking forward to more and more growth in Lemmy and the fediverse.

[โ€“] JackGreenEarth@lemm.ee 25 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Active communities for niche topics, like His Dark Materials, or Would You Rather, and the poll feature, which I used extensively. Yes, I know you can link to external platforms, but integrating it into the post was much nicer.

[โ€“] Irelephant@lemm.ee 8 points 1 week ago

I totally agree on polls.

[โ€“] darklamer@lemmy.dbzer0.com 23 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The extra-specific ask communities where great! Ask science fiction was one of my favorites

[โ€“] JigglySackles@lemmy.world 21 points 1 week ago

The hyperspecific interests mainly. The wealth of obscure info too.

[โ€“] GregorGizeh@lemmy.zip 18 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

A less specific demographic, which is a little ironic when referring to reddit. But lemmy is even more a subset of a subset of a subset of people than reddit is, and it gets a bit old at times.

Politics everywhere, and most of it is just circlejerking over something trump is doing and everyone agreeing how terrible he / his supporters / his handlers / the broligarchs are. There isn't much discourse to be had when everyone on here already agrees, and I don't mean I miss right wing voices. Just that I don't need to talk about politics with people who think virtually exactly the same as me about these things. And I'm also not an american.

Then there is an annoying flood of trans content, which is great that it has its place here, but for the most part doesn't interest me beyond a general sentiment of support for people to live their life how they wish. I want more diversity in my feed.

Not in necessarily in opinions but in topics

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[โ€“] vvilld@lemmy.dbzer0.com 18 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Really just the quantity of people, especially on ask subs. Lemmy just feels incredibly empty. And the breadth of topics people discuss here is extremely small.

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[โ€“] octobob@lemmy.ml 17 points 1 week ago (5 children)

r/electricians mostly

I'm an industrial electrician and I don't know a single soul in my life outside of my career who I can shoot the shit about electrical systems. Sometimes I just want to nerd out about it, or discuss UL and NEC codes, or sometimes just removed about old crap from decades ago you have to work on haha

[โ€“] can@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago (4 children)

or sometimes just removed about old crap from decades ago you have to work on haha

dot ml strikes again

[โ€“] vvilld@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 week ago

The censor specific words in comments rather than just deleting a whole comment? That's some shit.

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[โ€“] FartsWithAnAccent@fedia.io 16 points 1 week ago

I miss... the idea of it.

[โ€“] Usernameblankface@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Interaction on posts that have been up for more than 8 hours

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[โ€“] Outdated4134@lemmy.zip 14 points 1 week ago

The breadth of the content

[โ€“] Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Diversity. People on R were less uniform.

Maybe because they were more.

When there was only one allowed opinion in a sub, then you could often find another sub with the same topics allowed, but the only one allowed opinion was another one.

[โ€“] 0x01@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 week ago

Reddit started out very similar to the current lemmy/fediverse audience. The nerds go first and eventually everyone else follows.

The "When does the narwhal bacon" crowd was not diverse at all

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[โ€“] QualifiedKitten@discuss.online 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

The only communities that I still regularly browse on Reddit are the regional communities for the place I live currently and places I've lived previously. Those seem to have little to no activity around here. I no longer participate in them on Reddit, only lurk.

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Larger population of users = more content and more communities

[โ€“] insaneinthemembrane@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Specific TV show episode threads. I loved reading what people thought, things I'd missed, etc.

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[โ€“] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 week ago (5 children)

The app - Baconreader was so smooth. I'm getting used to the fediverse one, but there are still a lot of decisions by the devs that I hate.

The sheer amount of queer porn - it wasn't even enough because my tastes are.... Varying. But the feed of porn on fediverse is weak as fuck, with a lot of it being really boring and aimed at boring people who are not me (cishet men). I'm confident this will eventually get remedied, but it DID also take like a decade for even Reddit to get good porn, with its own ups and downs.

That being said, there's still so much more to love on fediverse that I don't need to look back to Reddit for. It feels like going from high school to a really big, really liberal college (Reddit->fediverse). I can openly do so much stuff, like say fuck nazis, which I regularly do, and very much mean. I can even say stuff like "the only good nazi..." and people will know what I'm talking about AND agree with, thank fuck. It's just a much more grown up place here, and I'm much more comfortable being closer to being able to speak my mind without having to censor myself, and I've noticed this in other people, too, that there's far less conformity to respectability politics, and people actually say what they think, regardless of how bizarre or unhinged it is, I truly love that.

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[โ€“] ozamataz@lemm.ee 8 points 1 week ago

The subreddits for individual sports teams, posting comments in game threads with a hundred other fans of your team from around the world.

[โ€“] Libb@jlai.lu 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

r/simpleliving or, more exactly, a more active version of it since the community is there: !simpleliving@lemm.ee. And more people participating in the !journaling@sh.itjust.works community too but hopefully we're slowly getting there.

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[โ€“] Una@europe.pub 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

r/notinteresting being everything but not interesting

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[โ€“] mac@lemm.ee 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Subs/communities for actively watched shows. I find myself needing to browser redlib for insights on, most recently, the white lotus and the last of us

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Posting my depraved "performance art" and interacting with my fans in the comments

My woman trolling each other back and forth

A few regulars from Askredditafterdark

[โ€“] Lifecoach5000@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I still browse and almost caught myself commenting recently. I quickly backspaced and exited out and came over here where I feel safe posting comments and interacting.

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A lot of good people need to make the switch.

r/libraryofbabel, r/tragedeigh, and r/everyoneknowsthat. But I can live without them.

Tragedeigh gets depressing sometimes as someone who had a horrible name growing up. Libraryofbabel kinda encourages my maladaptive daydreaming and honestly creating !0x255@sh.itjust.works wasn't the best for trying to break out of my daydreaming addiction.

However I can get my Who's Who updates somewhere else. Everyone knows ~~that~~ it, you've got ulterior motives!

[โ€“] Xaphanos@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)
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[โ€“] auginator@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

My points or whatever. I used to be a huge pot head and made some content people really liked so I had some nice numbers.

absolutely nothing.

[โ€“] Ledericas@lemm.ee 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

the OG communities, that were banned in '16-'17 because the gop started labeling alot of platforms as violent. P45 caused so many people to be overly sensitive, that reddit started banning in large numbers to cull the herd.

and most cities subreddits have been taken over by right wingers.

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