this post was submitted on 21 May 2025
18 points (95.0% liked)

Casual Conversation

3294 readers
177 users here now

Share a story, ask a question, or start a conversation about (almost) anything you desire. Maybe you'll make some friends in the process.


RULES (updated 01/22/25)

  1. Be respectful: no harassment, hate speech, bigotry, and/or trolling. To be concise, disrespect is defined by escalation.
  2. Encourage conversation in your OP. This means including heavily implicative subject matter when you can and also engaging in your thread when possible. You won't be punished for trying.
  3. Avoid controversial topics (politics or societal debates come to mind, though we are not saying not to talk about anything that resembles these). There's a guide in the protocol book offered as a mod model that can be used for that; it's vague until you realize it was made for things like the rule in question. At least four purple answers must apply to a "controversial" message for it to be allowed.
  4. Keep it clean and SFW: No illegal content or anything gross and inappropriate. A rule of thumb is if a recording of a conversation put on another platform would get someone a COPPA violation response, that exact exchange should be avoided when possible.
  5. No solicitation such as ads, promotional content, spam, surveys etc. The chart redirected to above applies to spam material as well, which is one of the reasons its wording is vague, as it applies to a few things. Again, a "spammy" message must be applicable to four purple answers before it's allowed.
  6. Respect privacy as well as truth: Don’t ask for or share any personal information or slander anyone. A rule of thumb is if something is enough info to go by that it "would be a copyright violation if the info was art" as another group put it, or that it alone can be used to narrow someone down to 150 physical humans (Dunbar's Number) or less, it's considered an excess breach of privacy. Slander is defined by intentional utilitarian misguidance at the expense (positive or negative) of a sentient entity. This often links back to or mixes with rule one, which implies, for example, that even something that is true can still amount to what slander is trying to achieve, and that will be looked down upon.

Casual conversation communities:

Related discussion-focused communities

founded 2 years ago
MODERATORS
top 24 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] NeedyPlatter@lemmy.ca 1 points 13 minutes ago

I can't remember the last time I had a sunburn lol

[–] Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 34 minutes ago

Somewhat easily, but I also tan very quickly. I still wear sunscreen daily (even in winter) because my grandfather died from skin cancer.

[–] ShawiniganHandshake@sh.itjust.works 2 points 35 minutes ago

Well, I managed to get sunburnt visiting Ireland. Twice. On two separate trips.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 4 minutes ago* (last edited 3 minutes ago)

Borderline vampire levels of sun avoidance. I can practically feel the skin damage just being in the sun.

I have freckles in places that have never been exposed to the sun in my life, just by existing for less than a week in Oklahoma visiting family

[–] FireWire400@lemmy.world 1 points 11 minutes ago* (last edited 2 minutes ago)

I recently spent 6 weeks in Australia, with much of that time spent outside. I did wore a hat for the most time but didn't really bother with sunscreen; I got a nice tan but that's about it.

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I am the whitest of white Anglo Saxon mutts, so very easily. In summer I wear a giant hat and sunglasses and loose light shawl everywhere or featherweight sweater. I went on a resort vacation a couple of years ago, and within an hour the one day I was burned even with sunblock. Never again.

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 3 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I think we must be related cos you just described me

[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 1 points 16 minutes ago

My aunt who is just as fair has had many skin cancers removed, and her dermatologist says she has the thinnest skin in the world. It's not something to fool around with.

[–] HollowNaught@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

What is "sun"? I only know "screen" and "LED bulb"...

[–] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

I am mixed between Scottish and Pacific Islander. I will cycle between soft burns and soft darkenings/lightenings despite being light tan. Though it's my lightening red hair I must watch out for.

[–] Venus_Ziegenfalle@feddit.org 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

About once a year I'd say. Not usually to the point where the skin starts peeling off though. Not here in Germany anyway, I forgot to put on sunscreen once and incinerated my nose in Australia 😅

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 3 points 3 hours ago

I got a burn just from seeing the word "sun" in your post.

[–] cebolla@piefed.social 6 points 6 hours ago

I am mixed, so not really at all unless I am put under some deathly ass sun. I just kinda turn brown. Orange -> brown. I will say though, I had the displeasure of skinning off a good portion of skin at one point in my life. The scar tissue does burn. Which I find out every spr-ummer. I am dating a professional lobster.

[–] Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 7 hours ago

Easier the older I get. When I was a kid, I'd basically just tan. There were definitely times I overdid it at the beach or something and got burnt but mostly I just went pretty dark. And funnily enough, at that time my hair was also do blonde it was almost white. Now, older and with darker hair lol, I'm still pretty sun resistant but burn a lot easier than I used to too. Especially my face.

Fun fact: I've got a small birthmark on my chest that's the same colour as the rest of my skin. And it can only be seen when I'm tanned because it stays the same colour while the rest of my skin gets darker. Haven't actually seen it years, so I wonder if it's even still there.

[–] Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I’ve burnt in 15 minutes here, probably 10-11 UV when it happened. Now I wear a sun jacket so I’m not slathering sunscreen on myself all the time, because that’s a sensory nightmare for me.

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Crikey that's even worse than me. Are you ginger?

[–] Catoblepas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 5 hours ago

Not even! I think it was a combination of high UV hitting me from the sun and it getting reflected from the pavement. That can be a real danger at the beach, too, even under an umbrella.

[–] PillowTalk420@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

I have to be out in the sun without protection for like a whole 8 hours to get a sunburn. Otherwise I just tan hella dark.

[–] deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz 3 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

Our local weather reports in summer usually have a UV index and "burn time". I half it.

So, single digit minutes in peak conditions.

[–] RizzRustbolt@lemmy.world 3 points 7 hours ago

Just reading the title has got my skin feeling all prickly.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Very. Last time I me I went to Houston in the summer time I was the whitest guy in the entire state when I arrived. I was red as a lobster when I left a week later. And yes, I did use sun screen.

I blame it on my northern scandinavian genes.

[–] Boomkop3@reddthat.com 2 points 6 hours ago

I'm basically a vampire. Sunlight I just have to avoid, or I need a lot of sunblock

[–] iasmina2007@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

I’m a redhead (strawberry blonde) with very fair skin, so I sunburn extremely easily - SPF 50+ for the win!