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[–] TheMightyCat@lemm.ee 92 points 1 month ago

Thank you to all the admins and donators who kept lemm.ee going.

[–] glaber@lemm.ee 73 points 1 month ago (7 children)

Wherever you guys migrate, please stop concentrating the userbase around lemmy.world, that's exactly what we're trying to avoid with Lemmy to begin with. The best thing you can do is go to https://join-lemmy.org/ and choose a server that's not in the top 10 or so. This will also help avoid things like the admins/mods burning out

[–] FlihpFlorp@lemm.ee 6 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Yeah I was gonna try out piefed and mbin but if those don’t work out for me any lemmy instance suggestions? J was thinking lemmy.zip or any instance who only defederates with spam/illegal stuff

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[–] AizawaC47@lemm.ee 65 points 1 month ago

Oh …..oh God, why!!! Why!? It’s too soon!!! 😭😩

[–] crawancon@lemm.ee 52 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 23 points 1 month ago
[–] pyre@lemmy.world 44 points 1 month ago (10 children)

I'll be honest i don't get what people differentiate so much about instances. most of the time i don't even notice what instance people I'm talking to are from, what instance the community in browsing is from, what instance the meme I'm viewing is from... is it about the software you're using that you're so aware of these things?

[–] megane_kun@lemmy.zip 21 points 1 month ago (1 children)

To me, it's mostly how an instance is ran. How it makes its decisions: defederating or not, and with whom, how they handle complaints, how they handle bans, etc. makes a difference in both the communities it hosts and its members.

There's also the matter of user culture. Some instances, like Beehaw, Lemmygrad, and Hexbear are known for a certain user culture. Some users might steer clear away from certain instances because of that perceived user culture.

And then there's the issue of defederation stance. It might not be readily apparent, or affect your user experience in a big way, but for some users, it's a factor. This is also where lemm.ee made its mark. It basically used defederation as a last resort, and some users were drawn to that.

[–] LucidNightmare@lemm.ee 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That's why I was here. I've already made a few more accounts just to have backups in case this happens again, but I really really enjoyed how I could see most of the Fediverse, and could block with my own settings if I didn't like the way another instance was ran. I will miss it. :'-]

[–] AreaSIX@lemm.ee 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (5 children)

I'm in the same boat. I do not like defederation. So where do we go? Any other instance with the same openness? I don't know details about instances, but I know I'd like to avoid .world though.

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[–] Lumun@lemmy.zip 7 points 1 month ago

If your display settings don't show the full username, there's no way to tell really. Voyager and Alexandrite show then by default. I think people just like to root for teams inherently and the interinstance drama is kind of fun. If you're on Lemmy a lot you start to recognize people and their main instance, there really aren't that many of us.

[–] PugJesus@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago

Community cultures, mostly, as trimmed and pruned by admins. Most instances I don't notice massive differences in, with a few exceptions.

[–] irelephant@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 month ago

Different admins; some instances federate with some, some block others.

[–] buddascrayon@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Well, that is unless they are coming from .ml 😒

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[–] detun3d@lemm.ee 33 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Thank you, not just for showing respect and appreciation to the people behind Lemm.ee but because these posts are a magnet for the kind of trolls everyone should block before migrating elsewhere. 👌

[–] ayyy@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Here’s an entitled ass to add to your collection lol https://sh.itjust.works/comment/19001249

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[–] TachyonTele@lemm.ee 31 points 1 month ago

You're not crying, I'm crying!

[–] Eheran@lemmy.world 29 points 1 month ago (3 children)
[–] irelephant@lemmy.dbzer0.com 59 points 1 month ago (13 children)

lemm.ee is shutting down, due to admin burnout.

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[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 16 points 1 month ago

most of the admins left due to stress, or lack of hiring. thats why its shutting down.

[–] AlteredEgo@lemmy.ml 26 points 1 month ago (8 children)

I really liked lemm.ee because it didn't defederate from the radical socialist and communist spectrum of political speech.

But the other issue with a bigger instance like lemm.ee going down is that as long as communities can't be moved (including users and content) to other instances, the lemmy project will fail. Because then only centralization in a few big instances is viable, and those big instances are going to become valuable and sold to plutocrats.

[–] Ideonek@lemm.ee 7 points 1 month ago (1 children)

That's a disturbingly good point.

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[–] Tweak@feddit.uk 6 points 1 month ago (5 children)

To be fair, lemm.ee didn't really act as host to any major communities to begin with. So communities aren't really the loss here, and it could be that having at least a few big active communities on an instance is a key part of maintaining its long term viability.

Also, all the text posts and comments from lemm.ee will still remain on other instances. I'm sure the instance could also back up content, if the specific admin so desired to re-host.

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[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 16 points 1 month ago

lemmyee grew too fast for its own good, with the reddit purges.

[–] LucidNightmare@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 month ago

Fellow lemm.ee refugee!

Thank you to the lemm.ee admins and mods for everything. I will miss the defederation policy the most!

[–] ghosthacked@lemmy.wtf 12 points 1 month ago

I'm an .ee refugee. I just hope this stuff doesn't become the norm where instances get shut down

[–] trash_@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 month ago

Lemm.ee was my home instance. I will miss it dearly. I wasn't as active as I probably could have been, but I'm still sad.

[–] Gort@lemmy.sdf.org 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

It was great while it lasted, and I thank those that ran it. A breath of fresh air after initially being on an instance that decided to nanny its users by defederating from instances for no good reasons.

I have a backup account on sdf.org, so I'm now using that as my main instance. Thanks to those who run it.

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[–] DropThePot@lemy.lol 8 points 1 month ago (3 children)
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[–] katze@lemmy.cafe 5 points 1 month ago

Yeah, what a shame.

[–] Sylvartas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 month ago (3 children)

I'm sorry but the best is dbzero. Lemm.ee was a damn good instance too though

[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I think it adds to our mystique that not even our regulars can spell it correctly :D

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[–] Tweak@feddit.uk 8 points 1 month ago

The lemm.ee admin is a shit hot developer though, his instance was generally more robust than all the others, and he helped other instances when they had various problems. It's a shame he wasn't the lead lemmy developer, although I'm sure he doesn't have the time for such a big undertaking.

[–] irelephant@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)
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[–] BigBananaDealer@lemm.ee 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

what do i do now i only use jerboa how do i change instances

[–] irelephant@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Go to https://lemm.ee/settings in a web browser (I'm not sure its in jerboa), and export your settings.
Make an account at lemmy.zip or lemmy.cafe, go to settings there, and import the settings file.

then, log out of jerboa, and log in with your new account.

[–] Ideonek@lemm.ee 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Can you explain why Lemmy.zip or Lemmy.cafe specifcaly?

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[–] Razzazzika@lemm.ee 4 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Shit I'm out of the loop, is my account being deleted or something?

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[–] TWeaK@lemm.ee 3 points 1 month ago

NOoooooooo :(

lemm.ee has been hands down my favourite instance, it's genuinely depressing that it's going.

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