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[โ€“] gofsckyourself@lemmy.world 82 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Thank you, @otter@lemmy.ca, for showing a perfect example of what a post should look like.

  • The title has the name of this particular comic strip and the name of the comic/author.
  • The post has the original image for full quality.
  • The description includes a link to the specific page of the author's website for this strip.

I award you with the highest medal I can bestow:

[โ€“] otter@lemmy.ca 20 points 1 day ago

Thank you so much for this medal, I will cherish it ๐Ÿ˜

[โ€“] Klear@lemmy.world 22 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Username does not check out.

you don't check your brain's file system regularly?

[โ€“] gofsckyourself@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You might want to read my username more carefully.

fsck

[โ€“] spicehoarder@lemm.ee 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I think I will fsck myself

[โ€“] meliaesc@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago

Can I $watch

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[โ€“] Akasazh@feddit.nl 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

As a childless person... I don't get it.

Is it like a rubber seal that keeps they lid on like in some other things meant to hold liquid or is it some other sippy cup related contraption

[โ€“] Joelk111@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago

Have you ever used a water bottle? They have a rubber seal in the lid that needs to be removed for cleaning. Same concept with sippy cups.

[โ€“] cynar@lemmy.world 17 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

There's a rubber seal inside the lid that stops them leaking. The milk etc can get behind it, where normal washing won't get. It can get funky if you don't clean it out.

Parenting mostly isn't that hard. You just have to keep all the proverbial plates spinning. Unfortunately there are FAR more than you expect, and you never get a break. You will miss some, then beat yourself up for missing something so simple.

[โ€“] Akasazh@feddit.nl 7 points 23 hours ago

I see, thanks for the clarification!

[โ€“] ICastFist@programming.dev 80 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[โ€“] thevoidzero@lemmy.world 72 points 1 day ago (23 children)

So why are mothers expected to just figure things out on their own? We humans have women living way past fertile age because they were important for children, and suddenly we decided we don't need grandma's help passing along generational knowledge and helping first time mothers. Grandma/Grandpa are supposed to be free and focus on helping the parents so they learn and don't make mistakes because they don't know anything.

And community too. It's so isolated. Makes me sad, and afraid to have children.

[โ€“] ICastFist@programming.dev 48 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Let's be real, the whole "only mom and dad are supposed to FAFO on their own" is an extremely stupid societal expectation. Humans were never meant to live as isolated animals, always in groups

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[โ€“] Vincent@feddit.nl 19 points 1 day ago (9 children)

In the Netherlands, "kraamverzorgenden" come by the house of new parents every day for ~the first week to show you the ropes, and just in general to help with chores and/or entertaining brothers and/or sisters.

[โ€“] Binette@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 day ago

kraamverzorgenden

That sounds like something that would go to the house of new parents and steel their kid

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[โ€“] dariusj18@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago

In my experience, it's not so much everyone needs to figure it out for themselves. It is filtering through invalid opinions and non-applicable information.

It's the same reason it is so hard being a doctor, "Oh, your baby is crying? Here's a few thousand things it could be, and tomorrow, it will probably be a different reason."

[โ€“] qarbone@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago

Unless they've been using the same sippy cups for decades, I don't think grandma would've helped with this.

While I don't disagree, (personally, I'm not about it but people should be able to plug in to a local community for common advice of mundane things) parents also just...learned things themselves. And sometimes it wasn't correct. I've spoken to my sister-in-law who told me about all the unsolicited advice she's gotten about motherhood. And how much of it was basically superstition, not medical advice.

This is super tangential, but I knew someone who had a miscarriage which caused a mental health crisis. Or perhaps more accurately, the crisis was caused by severe isolation and implicit stigma around her grief. She told me that after the crisis, she was surrounded by people who had experienced miscarriages too. She was baffled because this sure would have been helpful before the mental breakdown.

People are expected to be so strong that ultimately it just weakens us at the community and the individual level

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[โ€“] ImplyingImplications@lemmy.ca 85 points 1 day ago (11 children)

My brother had a kid and I always feel like some out of touch old man when we talk about it. Once he told me todlers can only have distilled water and I had to stop myself from going "Back in my day, my parents gave me tap water and I turned out fine!"

[โ€“] 9point6@lemmy.world 118 points 1 day ago (44 children)

I thought distilled water was bad for humans to consume as it leeches nutrients from you?

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[โ€“] jol@discuss.tchncs.de 50 points 1 day ago (1 children)

What. That can't be true. Maybe there's some advantage, like less fluoride etc. But it's not true they can't drink rap water...

[โ€“] Chainweasel@lemmy.world 40 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Maybe they live in Flint Michigan ๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ

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[โ€“] Quokka@quokk.au 37 points 1 day ago (11 children)

Babies, babies can't have tap water.

~6 months you start with cooled boiled water.

~12 months you can move onto tap water.

[โ€“] rijom@lemmy.ml 37 points 1 day ago

That also depends on where you live and on the quality of the tap water. Doctor here now recommend you to use tap water also for formula - without boiling it first.

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[โ€“] SaharaMaleikuhm@feddit.org 33 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Clean your ice machine unless you like to consume mold

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[โ€“] mesamunefire@piefed.social 28 points 1 day ago (1 children)

All I've learned from this tread is that people have some very strange beliefs...

Maybe talk to your DR instead of trusting what people say online.

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I read the cat mommy's voice in Princess Caroline's voice.

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