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Is anyone here so hardcore that they don't even bother with mainstream social media? If its not on Lemmy or Mastodon it must not be important? Anyone that hardcore?

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[–] golden_zealot@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago

Just Lemmy.

[–] leadore@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I wouldn't call it 'hardcore' not to use crap like that. I've never used Reddit, Twitter instagram or any of that (with one brief exception). Only the Fediverse. Made my mastodon account in 2018 and that's all I used until I made this Lemmy account last year.

The exception was: back about 15 years or so ago, some people talked me into making a facebook account because they had a group on there. I reluctantly made the account and read their posts for a while but it was just stupid meaningless tripe, so I never posted anything on there and after a while I deleted the account. During that time it was apparently hijacked because I logged on and someone had made a completely weird profile on it. Don't know how they did it but I changed the password and removed the stuff which seemed to work, that's when I submitted the deletion request to FB though who knows what happened to it after that.

edit: I should add that I do use Youtube (mainly via Freetube but not always) and I do read reddit posts when I search for things and it comes up as a relevant result.

[–] Nibodhika@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I don't consider myself hardcore, but I haven't posted to Reddit since the API thing, I read stuff there because there's lots of content, but I strongly dislike the official app so I refuse to use it, which means posting would be a hassle.

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[–] rishado@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Yes I uninstalled everything except Lemmy and it feels like 2007 again

[–] incogtino@lemmy.zip 22 points 1 day ago (5 children)

Lemmy + Hackernews + Arstechnica

What more is there to know?

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[–] cobysev@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

I only use Lemmy. Fuck Reddit. And this is from someone who spent over a decade using Reddit religiously. I dropped them during the whole API scandal. I had been growing more and now dissatisfied with Reddit and that was the last straw.

The only mainstream social media program I use is Facebook, and I don't really use it anymore. I only keep my profile because I've met people from all over the world who I stay in touch with through Facebook. Plus all my childhood friends and family members are there. But Facebook (and Meta as a whole) is garbage and I have a bunch of tools to prevent them from feeding me garbage content and recording my data while I'm trying to keep up with my friends and family there.

I have a Bluesky account, which I don't know what to do with. Twitter always felt like social media for celebrities; there wasn't much going on there for us normal people. I created a Bluesky account just to get away from Twitter, but I don't have much to post and none of it gets attention from anyone, so I just feel like I'm talking to myself. I don't have anyone really interesting to follow there either.

I also use Discord to stay in touch with my closest friends, on a personal server I built. That's pretty much it. I don't trust any other social media programs. So Lemmy is my main source of news and content.

[–] paequ2@lemmy.today 17 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Lemmy is my main social media. I don't use anything else. Occasionally, I still get reddit in my search results though.

Oh, I also use Discord.

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[–] halyihev@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Yeah, Lemmy and Mastodon only for me too.

[–] MojoMcJojo@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

I rock out with my Lemmy out🤘

[–] Toneswirly@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago

This is the only "social media" I use, alsthough its really more like a message board than modern social media.

[–] Saprophyte@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

I only have lemmy and mastodon. I kept my reddit account for about a year and had to delete my post and reply history three times before it finally disappeared. I then promptly deleted my account. Deleted MySpace around 2010 for fb, fb around 2015 when I went to reddit, then reddit after threatening public ipo.

[–] Sterile_Technique@lemmy.world 18 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Reddit backstabbing the 3rd party app developers was the straw that broke the camel's back for me. Found my way here during that shitstorm. Full deletion of my Reddit accound, haven't looked back. The quality of Lemmy has left me no desire to relapse.

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[–] Aeri@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I got banned from reddit for saying I should be allowed to punch nazis and my appeal was declined in minutes. This has led me to the conclusion that Reddit is pro nazi and ban evasion is a lot of work.

I do still peep at it because ngl Lemmy doesn't have that endless stream of content going.

[–] HawlSera@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago

At least your appeal was declined, when I appealed my "Abuse of Report Button", they never even responded.

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[–] CPMSP@midwest.social 4 points 1 day ago

I logged in a few times after creating my account here, but now I don't even bother.

It was fun, it got worse, and now it's full on garbage.

[–] Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 2 points 1 day ago

I left Reddit at the start of the APIocalypse. Lemmy is the only social media I use unless you count Youtube which I watch through Newpipe and Smarttube. Tried Mastodon but its not for me.

[–] jawa22@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Not using mainstream social media isn't "hard core" - it is being sensible and actually giving a shit.

[–] tartarin@reddthat.com 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm banned from Reddit and since the appeal process is bullshit, I didn't bother to appeal.

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[–] Steven_T_Baxter@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm on Lemmy because Reddit devs are letting their AI auto-ban their more intelligent users. Isn't that similar to letting Telsa's auto-drive into an auto-accident?

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[–] 50shadesofautism@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago

This is it unless you count discord as social media,or twitch?

[–] anas@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I still use reddit on Apollo without logging in, guess I’m not hardcore :P

[–] QuantumToast@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I thought they killed those aps

[–] anas@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

They did, I’m using a sideloaded version with my own API key.

[–] InfinityOfThought@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Just started using Lemmy. I’m getting used to it and like it for a lot of things but there’s literally no sports communities which I used Reddit for a lot so I don’t think I can completely stop using Reddit.

[–] yessikg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 day ago

Mastodon is where most of the sports content is

[–] Mechaguana@programming.dev 2 points 1 day ago

I succeeded for a while but somehow jerboa crashes all the time during the admin's holidays

[–] Confused_Emus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I deleted my Reddit account and switched to Lemmy after the API stuff. I kinda regret deleting my account because it wasn’t until after that I learned about the apps that would scrub your comment history, but Reddit has a tendency to roll those back anyway.

I still sometimes end up on a Reddit thread when searching for some technical issue, but I generally try to browse other forums for solutions first if possible.

ETA: all other social media stuff like Instagram and Facebook I deleted around the time of Trump’s first election. Just got sick of the constant stream of bullshit.

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[–] viking@infosec.pub 1 points 1 day ago

Lemmy is the only text-based social media I use, other than PieFed (which is practically the same, and fully compatible). If there was a PieFed client with a nice UI, I'd switch fully in a heartbeat. Unfortunately the only client seems to be Interstellar, which is functional but lacking (and ugly).

I do still use Instagram, but more so as a photo backup solution than active social media. PixFed or whatever it was called didn't work for me since nobody can guarantee that the server I chose will actively be maintained long term.

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