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Is anyone here so hardcore that they don't even bother with mainstream social media? If its not on Lemmy or Mastodon it must not be important? Anyone that hardcore?

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[–] Gloomy@mander.xyz 21 points 1 hour ago

I only use Lemmy since the reddit API Fuck up.

Sometimes, if I am looking for information, I visit reddit, but I treat it like any other random forum I look up something, take the info and fuck off again.

I use YouTube, if you wanna count that. I don't comment there and use Newpipe or PipePipe, so only consuming and no participation there too.

I haven't used any other social media, like Facebook or Instagram, so nothing hardcore for me in just continuing not to do so.

[–] ripcord@lemmy.world 25 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I had seven billion updoots or whatever on reddit. I haven't used it for 2 years.

Also, why is that "hardcore"? You might want to reevaluate your relationshio with social media and computing. If you can't disconnect from it that sounds unhealthy.

[–] Adulated_Aspersion@lemmy.world 7 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I agree with your sentiment, and I am in a similar boat. I dont think stepping away from Reddit / Facebook / Instagram / TikTok is hardcore.

I didn't have eleventy billion updooterinos on Reddit, but I had a fair share. When they made their stand around 2 years ago, I nuked my profile and bailed.

[–] Bebopalouie@lemmy.ca 2 points 53 minutes ago

I got rid of 95% of all social media years ago. Was only using reddit and a bit of Lemmy. Got nuked off of Reddit a couple months back and have now been on Lemmy since then. Nothing hardcore about quitting. It will be better for your sanity.

[–] Jomn@jlai.lu 7 points 1 hour ago

I don't use any mainstream social media, but I don't see how that is hardcore? I simply socialize in real life when I need it. And I feel like people mainly really use social media to entertain themselves.

[–] steeznson@lemmy.world 2 points 31 minutes ago (1 children)

I don't have a reddit account and only comment on lemmy. Although I do check the reddit frontpage every so often the actual communities I interact with are here.

Other than that, I have a mastodon account which I'm quite active on and a letterboxd too. Last thing would be linkedin but I don't post there and maybe login to it once a quarter.

[–] pdqcp@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 21 minutes ago (1 children)

What's the last movie you logged on letterboxd?

[–] steeznson@lemmy.world 2 points 17 minutes ago

Ken Russell's Lair of the White Worm

Gave it 3 stars.

[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 1 points 7 minutes ago

Me.

Hate Reddit. Always did. Lemmy's better.

[–] irelephant@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 21 minutes ago

I use reddit, but barely. Mostly for irish subreddits, the severance subreddit and r/guineapigs. And shilling lemmy of course ; )

[–] Resonosity@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 7 minutes ago

I am one that only uses Lemmy

[–] stinky@redlemmy.com 1 points 21 minutes ago

I use both several times a day. Reddit has more content. But the fediverse (and decentralization of communication) is important to me so I created my own instance. I'm hoping more people follow.

[–] immutable@lemmy.zip 5 points 40 minutes ago* (last edited 39 minutes ago)

I left Reddit 2 or 3 years back and have only used Lemmy since.

I joined through Lemm.ee so recently had to move over to Lemmy.zip

I think this was a net positive for me overall. Lemmy has a lot less content which helped me break the “I’m slightly bored let me pull out my phone and scroll Reddit” addiction I didn’t even realize I had. Now I check Lemmy maybe once or twice a day, still see the big important events and the couple communities I care about.

I was never one for twitter, so I don’t bother with trying to find a replacement for that.

Overall the less social media I use the better I feel. I think future generations will look back on our constant use of social media and dopamine mining the same way we look back on how people used to smoke everywhere.

We know it’s bad for us, but we like the dopamine so everyone just does it everywhere, we give toddlers tablets so they can start dopamine mining as early as possible. I hope our descendants look back at this time with a sense of “holy shit they just let people smoke in the nurseries at the hospital?!”

Reddit still comes up when I'm searching for info/insight on specific topics, but for scrolling and commenting it's Lemmy all day er'yday.

[–] ArsonButCute@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 51 minutes ago

I'm on lemmy. I'm an artist so I also have an account on Pixelfed.art because it has a portfolio view I can show people.

Otherwise I am a non-participant in social media.

[–] rishado@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

Yes I uninstalled everything except Lemmy and it feels like 2007 again

[–] O_R_I_O_N@lemm.ee 3 points 53 minutes ago

I haven't looked back to reddit since I created my account. It's better here

[–] TheDeadlySquid@lemm.ee 6 points 2 hours ago

Left Reddit almost a year ago and haven’t looked back.

[–] tartarin@reddthat.com 2 points 1 hour ago

I'm banned from Reddit and since the appeal process is bullshit, I didn't bother to appeal.

[–] DJKJuicy@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 hours ago

I only post or reply on Lemmy.

I don't have a facebook, instagram, snapchat, or twitter account.

I deleted my two reddit accounts after RIF stopped working.

I do have accounts on a couple of car forums so I can ask questions about fixing my car, if that counts.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 21 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I don't use reddit aside from reading search results. I never post and never explicitly seek it out.

I deleted Twitter years ago. I never used Facebook or Instagram or tiktok. That shit's bad for you.

It's annoying that some places will make announcements only on shitty platforms. None of my friends are this "hardcore" , so sometimes I find out about stuff like a concert or protest or whatever because one of them sees it on Instagram

[–] pleasestopasking@reddthat.com 1 points 9 minutes ago

I don't disagree, but what are the other/additional ways these announcements should be made that are effective? Besides word of mouth.

[–] bassad@jlai.lu 8 points 3 hours ago

Is that considered hardcore? I know plenty of people without any social media, but all of them are >40yo, we learned to socialize before gafam

[–] M0oP0o@mander.xyz 2 points 1 hour ago

I have never posted on reddit. I guess I dodged a bullet there.

[–] andyburke@fedia.io 2 points 1 hour ago

Yes. 🤷‍♂️

It's not even hard core. Escape that corporate screaming.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 1 hour ago

I only participate on Lemmy. I strictly consume video content on Reddit. But I haven't participated on Reddit in around a decade.

[–] Nibodhika@lemmy.world 6 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I don't consider myself hardcore, but I haven't posted to Reddit since the API thing, I read stuff there because there's lots of content, but I strongly dislike the official app so I refuse to use it, which means posting would be a hassle.

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[–] ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Nope. I never really used Reddit. I haven't touched Facebook since you needed an .edu email. Never got on any of the other platforms.

Main thing I used to use was just a small forum with a few people I knew for 20+ years until the guy who took over code and server maintenance made it a Nazi safe space.

[–] andyburke@fedia.io 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Yo wtf?

As someone in a similar-sounding situation who usually runs the code and maintainance - w t f?

There is no way one of my buddies taking over turns anything into a nazi safe space.

tf???

[–] ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

It's a little salty exaggeration but it was a group mainly of military people. The main guy went to work for the Pentagon years back and scrubbed his internet identity and sold/gave things to a member he trusted.

That member went nuts over covid and BLM. Started things like messaging me that because I wanted to invest in solar energy I was an enslaver of humanity working for China.

Knew the guy since we were teenagers but I just became an internet 'other' to him one day. He's the one that made it a safe space for himself to post 13/50 screeds and shit.

So in this instance, the buddy became the Nazi.

[–] andyburke@fedia.io 2 points 1 hour ago

Christ, I am sorry. That sucks.

[–] Shanmugha@lemmy.world 33 points 5 hours ago

Reddit stopped being mainstream for me since the API bullshit, so... hardcore I am, guess I

[–] Coreidan@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Still on Reddit. I’d be here full time but the content is severely lacking.

[–] LandedGentry@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 hours ago

I’m surprised you find there isn’t enough here for you. I’m pretty terminally online and I see new stuff constantly every day. Maybe subscribe tomore, larger communities?

[–] Mad__vegan@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Reddit started having ads and i noped out. Was really only using it for porn lol

[–] LandedGentry@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

Reddit has had ads for like 10 years my dude lol longer than that tbh. What ad method are you specifically referring to?

[–] Mad__vegan@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I was using Reddit is fun and when the killed the API I came here but still occasionally checked the Reddit app. Can't remember what exactly put me over the edge but it was something about ads on the app I couldn't handle anyone.

[–] LandedGentry@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Got it. Yeah the API bullshit was when I stopped moderating and left. The moment spez called us “landed gentry” (hence the username) and put his complete and utter distain for users on full display, I decided I had too much self-respect to stick around and give them my free labor anymore. Leaving that site was one of the best decisions I’ve made in a long time and honestly my mental health has vastly improved

[–] baggachipz@sh.itjust.works 24 points 5 hours ago

Add me to the “hardcore” list. There’s just no need for that evil crap. I’m fine just on Lemmy, it keeps the consumption under control.

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