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update: we broke up (sh.itjust.works)

submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by s0larfl4re@sh.itjust.works to c/mentalhealth@lemmy.world

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i’m gonna try doing better now, he and i broke up after all of the stuff that went on. idk, he told me he never loved me when we broke up and that he “already moved on” but on his alt that i blocked he was all “wait im sorry!!”. i told him that it will take some time for me to move on and forgive his actions, if they need to be forgiven.

he never had anything to say when we talked and i always had to start the conversation. whenever we chatted and i liked something, we would just be like “cool”, “cool.” Or “K cool”

Not even “Cool!” Or “Cool :)” idk

he expected me to do stuff for him but would never wanna do stuff I wanted. he likes Fortnite, I don't. he wants me to play it. I like minecraft? so does he. he says he doesn't have time to play it, that's fine. he likes instagram? I'm fine with it, we send each other videos. he wants me to watch them but never wants to watch mine, or says he will later but doesn't (like procrastinating but I guess that was fine and a petty thing to be sad over)

anyway, he's my ex now

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[–] religion6614@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago

Oh, good luck with things! I miss my ex even though I just broke up with her. You're strong, though, you will survive this :)

I'm trying to move on, too, but I never told her I never liked her nor has she ever told me that even during the breakup.