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[–] FuckFascism@lemmy.world 4 points 2 hours ago

The tankies

[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 6 points 6 hours ago

Smaller user base. It is both good and bad but the community for my city is dead (probably there were only like 8 of us on here).

Am old enough to know from experience that the early people on any platform are the computer geeks so expect the tech communities to thrive first - but as someone else said, music communities die, sports, arts, things that are pretty widely popular. Honestly happy with the slow and steady growth of the !cocktails@lemmy.world so if it's an indicator, the general interest people are joining just not quickly but some must be sticking. I would guess at some point it will be perfect then too big but who knows?

Personally I also miss the nonsexual nudes threads like nakedprogress and normalnudes. Again that's a lack of users issue, you need a lot of people willing to post, to have even a few willing to post nude.

[–] selkiesidhe@lemm.ee 7 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

I have trouble finding um what are they called here... Communities?... for the subjects I'm interested in. When I search, all I find is old posts or unrelated posts.

That's my biggest problem

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

FYI, your instance is shuttting down soon: https://lemm.ee/post/67603898

To find communities, !communitypromo@lemmy.ca is usually a good place

[–] weremacaque@sh.itjust.works 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

My first try at the Fediverse, I didn't know how important it is to instance-hop so when mine was down a lot more often than it was up, I temporarily went back to Reddit.

[–] RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

Oh, brilliant. Thanks.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 9 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 7 hours ago

Piefed solves that issue: https://piefed.zip/post/100161

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A few options

[–] Schwim@lemmy.zip 2 points 8 hours ago

The negatives of a social site combined with the negatives of an unpopular social site.

[–] HeyJoe@lemmy.world 17 points 13 hours ago (3 children)

As everyone has pointed out, people and content. Its good in some ways since not every post is drowned out with one thousand replies nobody will ever see, but at the same time, you're not getting much of anything at all sometimes. Not even very niche ones either. Even groups that represent entire states has limited info or replies still. If it can grow to that size and see some more unique and local content more I think even that would be a much better place for it to be.

[–] JakoJakoJako13@piefed.social 6 points 11 hours ago

Yeah this is my issue with it. I can find all the arts, Linux, and political stuff just fine. Sports, music, and places communities are seriously lacking. They exist, but are a shell of what you'd hope they'd be. Engagement is so low, it's not worth bothering. The sports and music communities being so small and sparse is a real bummer.

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[–] ter_maxima@jlai.lu 43 points 17 hours ago (9 children)

Not enough people for even slightly niche communities. Wanna talk about smash brothers ? 732 people, only 2 posts in the last month.

This is why people still use reddit on the side.

[–] bampop@lemmy.world 26 points 16 hours ago (3 children)

This is exactly why I don't use Reddit on the side. When I run out of content on Lemmy, there's no choice but to do something productive instead. Had to go 100% cold turkey on Reddit to make that work though.

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[–] intelisense@lemm.ee 35 points 17 hours ago (4 children)

Duplicate communities posting the same content over and over again.

Communities are tied to an instance. How many communities will die because lemm.ee is shutting down? There is a slightly mad rush to migrate communities already.

Lemmy should have used usent style naming for communities.

[–] jimmy90@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

the architecture of lemmy, both socially and technically, is not working as hoped and it's likely it will suffer an effective death before it evolves sufficiently to enable distributed communities

the federated model is too lumpy and fragmented at the same time

[–] CosmicTurtle0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 15 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

I think there is a feature request to allow communities to subscribe to other communities so that their posts and comments are synced.

[–] intelisense@lemm.ee 10 points 15 hours ago

Great, so the duplication happens automatically! This is solving the wrong problem, IMHO...

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 14 hours ago

Duplicate communities posting the same content over and over again.

Piefed solves that issue: https://piefed.zip/post/100161

All comments from 5 crossposts in a single view

A few options

How many communities will die because lemm.ee is shutting down?

Active communities have moved elsewhere:

Inactive communities weren't active in the first place.

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[–] ProfThadBach@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

I may not understand how all this works but the very first page is mostly stuff that is 24 hours old or older. Maybe I am sorting it wrong or something but looking for the latest news is not easy. There should be a way from things that are older than 24 hours to fall off the front page. Also something like reddit enhancement suite would be nice.

[–] RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

I like the scaled sort option when I notice that.

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

You can switch to "Top of 6h", "Top of 12h", or "New comments"

[–] Jmsnwbrd@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Where is this option? I looked everywhere and can't seem to find it.

[–] remon@ani.social 79 points 22 hours ago (4 children)

Same as with every other social media ... the people.

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[–] gigachad@sh.itjust.works 56 points 21 hours ago (3 children)

lemmy.ml and its admins being the developers at the same time.

[–] PrettyFlyForAFatGuy@feddit.uk 44 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (4 children)

I don't think that in itself if the problem. anyone can host an instance. The problem is lemmy.ml being the apparent default instance, advertising itself as an instance for privacy and FOSS enthusiasts, and not mentioning seemingly anywhere in the description/rules that only red flavour authoritarian dogma is allowed in political discussion.

"America bad, therefore former 'communist' russia and current 'communist' china good."

Edit: it's not featured as prominently as it used to be on join-lemmy.org so things may be improving. they should still mention in the description that western viewpoints on many issues are not allowed due to "rule 1"

[–] nebulaone@lemmy.world 33 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (1 children)

I realized .ml was fucking insane and delusional when they glorified Stalin and refused to recognize the atrocities he committed.

No matter what your political stance is, as soon as you deny negative facts and exclusively push the "positives" it becomes a problem and may radicalize you (if that isn't already the case).

What happened to nuanced moderate politics? It seems people unconditionally put the "left" or "right" label on themselves. And ironically these blind followers will have the audacity to call anyone close to the political center, or people who are honest with themselves, cowards.

[–] PrettyFlyForAFatGuy@feddit.uk 19 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah, well the guy who runs it is a notorious tankie.

You either tow the pro stalinist line or you are punished

[–] nebulaone@lemmy.world 17 points 17 hours ago

I was on .ml first after leaving reddit, because I didn't know this was the case, until I called out straight up state propaganda and defended capitalism with social and ethical policies once. You can imagine how they responded to that.

[–] squaresinger@lemmy.world 7 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

Huh, just checked out the ranking on join-lemmy.org. The default setting is "random", which might be why it's not featured up top.

But what's weird is that lemmy.world isn't in the ranking at all.

If you sort by active, the top two are lemmynsfw.com, followed by lemmy.ml.

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[–] squaresinger@lemmy.world 20 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (2 children)

Issues that would be solved by time/gaining more users

  • Not nearly enough people to cover all the niche interest communities that Reddit does. At Reddit you find an expert on almost any topic to help you with your problems and you'll find information on pretty much anything. Lemmy isn't there yet.
  • Not nearly enough history. A lot of content is still good and informative after many years. Lemmy doesn't have a library of old-but-still-relevant content to search.

Issues independent of user count

  • Search sucks. Reddit's search does too, but reddit is easily searchable via Google. Lemmy isn't.
  • Onboarding is difficult, because you have to choose an instance, which is hugely important, but a newcomer has no idea what makes/is a good community to join

Issues that get worse with more users (aka, the potentially deal-breaking issues)

  • Lemmy scales terribly. Every larger instance needs to retain a copy of pretty much all other content out there, and each comment/like/delete/update/... needs to be propagated to every other major instance out there. Adding more instances thus increases complexity and cost instead of decreasing it. Running a major lemmy instance is already prohibitively expensive now, with just about 50k monthly active users. If Lemmy was to scale to Reddit numbers (1.1 billion monthly active users, roughly 22 000x the number of users), everything would just break down.
  • Moderation work scales just as terribly. Not only does an admin need to make sure the communities on their instance are moderated, but they also need to moderate all other communities on all other instances.
  • Related to the last point, there's some legal issues as well if an admin doesn't moderate all other instances. Since content is copied from other instances to your instance, illegal content (e.g. illegal pornography, copyrighted works, ...) are also copied to your own server without your active participation. That makes it legally mandatory to moderate all other communities.
  • Legal pitfalls in general. If lemmy becomes sizeable enough, all sorts of laws in regards to social media platforms will apply. That's one thing if the social media platform is run by a huge corporation with a legal department, but it's an entirely different story for a tiny group of non-profit idealists running the social media platform.
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[–] SoftestSapphic@lemmy.world 8 points 14 hours ago

We need more users, to do that we need more advertising.

I was waiting to leave reddit for like a year before i found out about lemmy.

There's no way the twitter clone Bluesky should have absorbed the fleeing reddit users instead of this space that functions just like reddit.

[–] hexonxonx@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Trying to be a Reddit clone.

Reddit was shit to begin with. It was a dumbed down forum site for people who found sites like Plastic or Kuro5hin too intimidating or complicated(!).

Slashdot-style upvoting would instantly solve a lot of "Reddit"-type problems, because instead of just good/bad, or like/dislike, the reason for the vote is noted, such as "insightful", "funny", etc., and you can then filter and sort comments much easier. Just filtering out "funny" comments saved soooooooo much time.

Another thing: Why don't creators of threads have the option to admin their own threads? It's their thread! It wouldn't be appropriate for discussion threads (for obvious reasons), but for interpersonal posts and questions, it makes perfect sense for the creator to be able to have control over what appears in the thread to keep it on topic and the trolls at bay. It's pretty rare to see a post where someone asks a question that doesn't quickly devolve into an offtopic mess, and the creator is usually attacked for trying to bring it back on topic. This has made Reddit useless for question-answering (and besides, the most upvoted answer is almost always wrong.)

Is the purpose of these forums to enable authentic conversation, or just to farm content regardless of quality (to be sold to AI companies, presumably)?

[–] Blaze@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 13 hours ago

Another thing: Why don’t creators of threads have the option to admin their own threads? It’s their thread! It wouldn’t be appropriate for discussion threads (for obvious reasons), but for interpersonal posts and questions, it makes perfect sense for the creator to be able to have control over what appears in the thread to keep it on topic and the trolls at bay. It’s pretty rare to see a post where someone asks a question that doesn’t quickly devolve into an offtopic mess, and the creator is usually attacked for trying to bring it back on topic. This has made Reddit useless for question-answering (and besides, the most upvoted answer is almost always wrong.)

This would probably quickly devolve into OP removing any comments they disagree with

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