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[–] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] TheMinister@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)
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[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 74 points 4 days ago (1 children)

for every 15 minutes I work, I take a 60 minute break.

[–] FenrirIII@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

Every email I send means a half hour break

[–] bathroomconnoisseur@lemmy.ca 10 points 3 days ago

Riding my bike to work

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 8 points 3 days ago (2 children)

having at least 10hrs of sleep

[–] flubba86@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Bruh... If I get less than 7.5 hours sleep, I'm tired all day. But if I get more than 8.5 hours sleep, I'm also tired all day. There's the magic window of time in the middle where I wake up relatively refreshed.

[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 1 points 2 days ago

you can get groggy, if you oversleep.

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[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 20 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I am not needlessly cruel and violent to vulnerable individuals living in atrocity several times a day.

[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 6 points 3 days ago

Username doesn't check out.

[–] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 8 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I have a few things I've picked up recently.

  1. A couple of years ago I quit drinking coffee, so now I almost exclusively drink water. I find the water first thing in the morning is a brilliant way to wake up
  2. In the evenings I go for a bike ride, giving me some fresh air, sunlight and exercise. Some nights I go for a 20 mile intercity route, some nights I just do an easy 5 mile route in town
  3. After my bike ride I'll eat some ice cream, shower, then relax with a book in bed (my phone stays on my dresser and out of reach from the bed) before going to sleep

The right morning routine and evening routine really makes my days feel so much more fulfilling even if I haven't been particularly productive that day

[–] shamrt@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Is the ice cream just a treat, or...?

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[–] Olkiss@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

A couple of years ago I quit drinking coffee, so now I almost exclusively drink water. I find the water first thing in the morning is a brilliant way to wake up. It is actually the best thing every to do in the morning. A glass of water. I read some articles about that it helps nicely, softly to wake up the body and also to prepare the stomach. And obviously to be hydrated. I do the same. Glass of water (quite big one) + Vitamins C, Zinc

[–] WanderWisley@lemmy.world 12 points 3 days ago

I’ve been doing some stretching in the morning, and I have a small weight set that I do a little bit of lifting with. As you get older your body no matter its condition will start to break down. It’s good to have a better pan and diet as you get older.

[–] Saprophyte@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I lift weights four days a week. It really has helped me with a lot of inflammation issues and I really have so much more energy. It's not every day exactly, but four days a week I'm lifting for about an hour and a half each session. My life significantly improved after about the first six to eight weeks.

[–] Olkiss@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Four days in a week in a row or you take in between some rest days?

[–] Saprophyte@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I take off Wednesday and then every weekend. I appreciate sleeping in on Wednesday like you wouldn't believe.

[–] Olkiss@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Actually, having a Wednesday off is so great. You can go around the city, it is empty, you can enjoy the streets etc. I have always recommended my team to experience at least once a Wednesday off

[–] Lifecoach5000@lemmy.world 47 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I hug a tree. I dunno if it makes life noticeably better but it’s a vibe. I lost quite a few trees in a storm last year and feel like I’ve under appreciated them for way too long. No more!

[–] P1nkman@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

My wife does the same, and after we tried shoots the first time, I do the same now. Lost our second biggest tree last year in a storm, fell due to to much water, so the roots came with it, but it happened where we don't need to trim it, so now it's just laying there. We'll let nature take it's course. And we have enough firewood.

Edit: shrooms dammit.

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[–] MissJinx@lemmy.world 24 points 4 days ago (2 children)
[–] ptc075@lemmy.zip 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Serious upvote here. This is a game changer, it's right in front of our noses, and it's free.

Hardest part is figuring out how to make yourself actually sleep - just lying down in the bed isn't enough.

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I sleep and eat almost every day.

Some people are able to sleep at the same time everyday and eat three times a day. I've never understood how.

[–] MissJinx@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (3 children)

Routine. If you do it everyday for a while your body get used to it

Edit: that's what they say

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[–] Olkiss@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

One of my favourite activity

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 31 points 4 days ago (3 children)
[–] shai_hulud@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

I read an interview with Jenna Jameson a million years ago. The interviewer asked what was in the future. She answered something about her career and then, "make myself cum every day, whether I needed it or not", and I think that is just about the greatest advice for anyone. I've rarely missed a day in at least 20 years.

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Lift weights, lots of water and protein.

[–] steeznson@lemmy.world 33 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Leave slack DMs 15-20 mins before answering

[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 12 points 4 days ago (1 children)

It took me a long time to realize slack responses don't need to be immediate. I usually have a slightly emotional reaction, but given 5 minutes I can gather my thoughts and give a much better response

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[–] 7EP6vuI@feddit.org 32 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (5 children)

not giving a fuck

still giving to much fucks, but at least i'm tying

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[–] idunnololz@lemmy.world 13 points 4 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

I greatly reduced how much news I consume per day and it's done wonders for my mental health.

I chose 2 sources of news that I trust and then I block news everywhere else in my life. Every morning I read the news from the two sources I picked and that is all the news I will consume for the day.

If I notice that I am consuming news elsewhere I will block/ignore/hide that source.

As an example, if I notice a community here post too much news I will just block it. I use Discord, so if one of the servers I'm in has any political or news channels I will mute them, etc etc.

Doing this, I find that the news I read is more relevant to me because the sources I chose are local news networks. In addition, because I am not getting news from social media, the news I read is much less sensationalized.

It makes the news that I read boring and I think that is a good thing.

[–] Jackhammer_Joe@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago

What are the two sources?

[–] Olkiss@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

As I have to go back to the office I am reading a book now in the bus. I also try to avoid news but sometimes, it is a bit hard as I am not aware if something has changed. It happened to me. For example: the price of the bus ticket went up. I just discovered it when I got in.... :( So, I filter.

[–] DaniNatrix@leminal.space 5 points 3 days ago

I set aside 20 minutes in the morning to journal. It's become sacred to me. It helps me clear my head and set my focus for the day.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 26 points 4 days ago (10 children)

To be honest even my go tos are not working very well. Walking, bathing, nature.

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[–] allo@sh.itjust.works 14 points 4 days ago

dance

listen to music

make my home a better place

[–] callyral@pawb.social 5 points 3 days ago

I drink water

[–] Acamon@lemmy.world 20 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Make a cocktail before dinner. Not saying it's the right thing for everyone, but it brings joy, relaxation and a nice moment of quality couple time with my partner.

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[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 17 points 4 days ago

Get up at the same time every day, even when I don't have to. Having a nice solid circadian rhythm makes me feel much better in several ways.

[–] Samsonreturns@lemmy.world 18 points 4 days ago

Stretch for 15 minutes 2 times a day

[–] FUCKING_CUNO@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I chug a tall glass of cold water first thing in the morning. Wakes me up a bit, gets the guts moving for a morning shit, and obviously helps rehydrate after sleeping.

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[–] Dearth@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

I take 100mg of welbutrin every morning. Seems to do a decent job of making my life better

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