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Welcome to your new guy group, membership of 1. I'm off to the other side byeeeeee.

[–] heyWhatsay@slrpnk.net 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[–] untorquer@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

Pretty good scene in Portland.

gender affirming crippling loneliness

[–] riwo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 55 points 1 week ago (2 children)

damn, i didnt realise even trans spaces are hostile to trans mascs :< thats ass

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 70 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's more that many spaces lean heavily transfem, so it's hard for transmascs to relate or feel represented

[–] WalrusDragonOnABike@reddthat.com 47 points 1 week ago (1 children)

And sometimes the high prevalence of transfems in certain spaces leads to people accidentally doing things like she/her'ing everyone by default.

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 week ago

Lmao I've almost done this with my friends

[–] Gustephan@lemmy.world 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

IME trans spaces are kinda just low key hostile to men in general. Not in the way where everybody is hostile or anything, but if you pay attention you'll notice that misandrists get away with a wild amount of shit slinging in trans spaces as compared to most other flavors of bigotry being policed quickly and harshly

[–] untorquer@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

My experience is that it's generally worse when in the milieu of an institution (e.g. university, larger orgs) or anywhere power imbalance is structural. That there are more examples of good in independent spaces.

I'm not much of a gender expressionist so maybe it doesn't translate to a transmasc exp.

[–] Sivecano@lemmy.dbzer0.com 30 points 1 week ago (1 children)

We need more representation for trans men ('cos they're awesome)

[–] Gladaed@feddit.org 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Allegedly there are more transmascs than transfems in young people.

[–] BiNonBi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 6 days ago

The gap between them closed. They are roughly equal now as opposed to transfems out numbering transmascs. Transphobes latched onto there being relatively more transmascs and use it as a talking point in support of their "theory" of social contagion.

[–] ZILtoid1991@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Not trans here, but please don't become an incel, a transmasccel, or whatever!

[–] BryceBassitt@lemmy.blahaj.zone -3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You do know what the word involuntary means... right?

one need not have sex to avoid being an incel, nor does having sex really change a person

[–] celeste@feddit.org 6 points 1 week ago

Online sure, but offline it's sometimes in reverse

[–] renamon_silver@lemmy.wtf 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Why male in quotation marks. Just why.

[–] Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone 18 points 1 week ago

I read it as emphasis (since the text is also all caps)

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone -2 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Agreed, that seems wrong and misgendery.

[–] Soulg@ani.social 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

No it's referring to the "male loneliness epidemic"

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Then why is only male in quotes?

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Because there is a loneliness epidemic, but its not centred on males

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago

Thanks for explaining!

[–] Soulg@ani.social 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The poster is a trans man and I think it's them feeling validated as male, that's how I read it

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago

Do you mean the OP in this thread because if so we're pretty sure that's not the case.

If you mean within the context of the pictures, sure.