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daily. I've tried not doing it daily and it's never worked. I'm sick of people telling me "oh don't do it every day, it'll get better after a while" IT DOESN'T. I have to use dry shampoo the same day too or else it will look horrible. It sucks
I've got straight hair that's very thin and I wash it every 3 days. If I wash more frequently it dries out way too much
I have curls. I hate washing my hair, but if I don't wash it, it just gets harder and harder to wash when I do. Ideally, it would be 2 to 3 times a week. In practice it's about once a week (sometimes less than that)
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Same for me. I’ve got soft (Irish?) curls/waves. My hair keeps a lot more of its texture if I stick to about once a week for a full wash. I’ll sometimes do a mid week water rinse and follow it with some leave in conditioner, but any more often and I get very frizzy.
once or twice a week, usually once a week 😅 I have curly hair.
How do you do that? My curls last like 2-3 days before becoming an unrecogniseable mess
do you use Curly Girl Method?
in my experience usually it's sleeping that disturbs my curls, so I pineapple my hair and wear a silk bonnet to sleep and that helps significantly- it's also just good for your hair, avoiding damage and so on
if I need to reset my curls but it's not time for a wash, sometimes I can get away with wetting my hair with cold water and then letting it dry and usually my curls are back
Ohh, that just nicht be it
I regularly get compliments on my hair after I neglect it for a while. So I reckon whatever I'm doing is wrong.
In the last year I've got it down to every 2 days and my hair is a lot less greasy for it! Really pleased.
That's great! Washing & drying hair can be such a boring chore, it's nice to not have to do it as often :)
Twice a week. Longer hair helps, plus combing it morning and night to distribute oils throughout the length and not letting it build up at the roots.
That's a really good tip! How long do you comb it for?
Not long, just a minute or two. Feels good in the AM to scratch my scalp a bit too.
Ahhh my scalp flakes a lot so I couldn't risk that
I can get by with every other day but the second day is not as good as the first day, so I may not always be able to skip a day depending on what I have going on.
I have fine, thin hair I cut short. If I get sweaty I'll wash with water, but if it's greasy or oily I use rye flour mixed with water in my hair about every 5 days. It works impressively well as a "shampoo", and for being all the fancy things (sulfate free, paraben free, ph neutral, all natural etc etc) it's dirt cheap per wash. I would not recommend it for anyone with really thick or textured hair because the grains can be a damn pain to rinse out (unless your water pressure is incredible), but it's awesome if you have fine, thin hair and you're looking for a new routine. It's probably one of the weirder self care things I've discovered but it really works for me. I love my hair now.
Currently every other day. In the winter I can get away with every 2 days. I wish I could go longer, but I've never found a way. Dry shampoo doesn't work for me, and I don't like the weird texture it gives my roots.
Luckily my hair is reasonably fine, so it only takes me about 10 minutes to dry. Drying it is the most boring part!
Every other day and every two days are the same thing. If you mean there is a two day gap where you don't wash, that is every third day.
D'oh, I always make that mistake!
I got long smooth blond hair. I wash it shit every 2-3 days or if I get s lot of dust in it
My wavy hair doesn't like too many washes, and leave-in conditioner keeps me from frizzing out in between. I'm on an A/B system with my routines because it's too hard to neatly divide seven days, so I'll wash my hair twice on an A week and three times on a B week.
I've got wavy hair so it's quite forgiving - I wash it once or twice a week with just hot water and lots of combing with my hands - then wash my hands off the oil and repeat 2-3 times.
I only use shampoo when I get something really small and deeply absorbed in it - like if I've been near an open fire and my hair smells really smoky - otherwise I avoid shampoo as it dries out my scalp and gives me dandruff
it's weird how your hair is really oily at first but then it just kind of adjusts and stays at a baseline - random people still comment that my hair looks nice so I don't think it's noticeable
Every other day, usually. Sometimes every three or four days, if I can stave off the grease with dry shampoo. And although my hair isn’t dyed right now, spacing out washes is also important for making the color stay longer.
I go about 5 days between. When I am lazy I prolong this by using baby powder as dry shampoo.
Daily. One or two days with just water, but interspersed with soap days for when things get gross.
More frequent soap days over the summer or if I'm doing a lot of exercise or such. Less frequent soap days on lazy periods or winters.
Every three days.
I have curly hair that I'm growing out, but I just cowash with conditioner basically every day, and use shampoo somewhere in the range of every other day to every other week depending on when I feel like it'll help (typically every like 4-5 days or so).
Every 2-3 days. After that, product build-up makes my scalp itchy. Also my baby fine hair looks lank and yuck no matter what I do.
Maybe it's a ND thing, but I feel like I'm going crazy if I don't wash it everyday. But I think I might just be naturally a little more greasy than some, idk.
Once a month
Every day, once or twice. Male with relatively short hair.
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once or twice a week i'll wash with shampoo, the rest of the week i rinse it with luke warm water after work or other sweaty activities; cool water in colder months and on days I'm not sweating. i brush and comb my hair in the mornings and evenings.
I work from home so I usually only need a shower every other day. As such, my current routine is shampoo every time but conditioner every other time.
I found that using conditioner every shower led to my hair feeling greasy and gross within a day or so, but no conditioner at all swung the other way - Dry and frizzy.
usually every other day, unless i do something particularly messy/sweaty. id wait longer but my bangs get greasy a lot faster than the rest of my hair