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I'm not behind all disabled people at all times. That would be some weird creepy nightmare monster shit.
To all disabled people: I'm probably not even near you right now. I might be behind you in a 'facing Mecca' sense but I'm not hiding right behind you in such a way you dont see me when you go by a mirror.
Please don't be disturbed by this. As far as i can tell we all want to support you and if you need someone to watch out for crowds of strange women skulking behind you. I'm sure most people would be down to help. Nobody should have to deal with that; it's such a weird problem.
I'm sure I'm not the only paranoid and disabled person who appreciates this sentiment. :)
I'm so sorry if this has happened to you. As far as I'm aware there are no disabled people in my apartment right now, unless emotional cripples count, and there's only one of us here that I know of.
How does pooping work with the crowd of strange women behind you? Do they make a hole and swarm into the walls? That sounds kind of cool. If two disabled people back into each other do their crowds of probably-too-online women overlap? Since its the same crowd of women, do they... How does that work?
I have a freestanding toilet. And if I back into another disabled person accidentally we well be circled by smartphone-wielding internet saints. I can't answer the other questions – I can feel someone watching over my shoulder…
freestanding toilet
Freestanding outside, though? The same applies if you need to go around a tight corner or something–right?
i can feel someone watching
Hold on! I'll be right there! Or maybe dont hold on; I have no idea how i might help!
What if they are an asshole?
I absolutely hate when I need to be pro-rights for assholes, but even assholes deserve basic human rights.
If they are denied human rights, then everyone is denied human rights.
You don't have to like someone to give them human rights
Absolutely. The jerks, the bullies, the serial killers... they all deserve rights