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submitted 11 months ago by Lafari@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

Please don't say neither (that's not an option)

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[-] theKalash@feddit.ch 18 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Bald of course. What's the big deal about being bald?

[-] AFallingAnvil@lemmy.ca 5 points 11 months ago

Am bald, quality of life is great and the girlfriend is still caring and hot. This question is dumb.

[-] Bahalex@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago

So much time and money saved, as well as head space not needing to be concerned about hair and styling.

[-] CaptainMcMonkey@lemmy.world 10 points 11 months ago

Had hair, didn’t fuck. No longer have hair, do fuck.

Fucking is definitely better than having hair. No contest.

[-] dan1101@lemm.ee 3 points 11 months ago

Bald guys can get a lot of action. You have to go full bald though.

[-] Lifecoach5000@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

At what threshold do you go full bald at? I’ve been struggling with this for years as my hair thins out. I’ve got the balding dome on my crown in the back, which of course I never see unless I look with 2 mirrors.

Anyways this is a query I just constantly ask people to get their opinion. What say you, internet stranger?

[-] dan1101@lemm.ee 1 points 11 months ago

Sadly I don't have a good answer. I'm almost at the point of having a bald spot on the back of my head, but I think I'm hiding it well enough for now. I guess the sad reality is the 2 mirror angle is not something you yourself normally see but other people around you do.

[-] Lifecoach5000@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

Hey it’s kinda out of sight/out of mind for me lol

[-] Lafari@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

If you have a big balding spot that's visible, I say either get a hair transplant or embrace it (it will probably progress until you may want to eventually shave it all off). You can go either way. But you will need to go on drugs as well if you want to keep the effect of the hair transplant (unless you get repeated transplants). Hope this helped

[-] Lifecoach5000@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

Thanks for your input. I’m going to accept my level baldness regardless most likely. I just don’t know if/when I wanna go full shaved head bald. I tried it for about a year and the look just didn’t seem to fit for me.

[-] Lafari@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago

Also it's possible drugs can fix it without a transplant

[-] Lafari@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago

One more option: hair fibres, but this is a temporary solution and your balding will still progress most likely

[-] forty2@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

Bald up top, and a big fuck-off uncontrollable 70s afro down below.

Neatly trimmed to look exactly like an elephant shaped chia pet. Orgasms ruined because the beauty and awe THIS burning bush elicits, but I don't care because it's been classified as one of the natural wonders of the world

[-] LanternEverywhere@kbin.social 3 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Basically 100% of men would rather be bald. I would guess that for women the percent would be somewhat lower, but still a large majority, but that's just a guess, I'd be interested to hear what women think

[-] Lifecoach5000@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

Ohhhh good one. I am asking a woman friend that right now

[-] talizorah@kbin.social 3 points 11 months ago

I'm not getting laid anyways, and already have to wear a hat all the time. Give me my hair back.

[-] Lafari@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago

You may consider a transplant or medications such as finasteride.

[-] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 3 points 11 months ago

I'm slowly losing my hair now, but I would NOT trade my dick to get it back!

[-] Lafari@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago

You may consider a transplant then, and if no drugs, then you may need to get another one later down the track as well, possibly repeatedly.

[-] Lafari@lemmy.world -1 points 11 months ago

Would you cut off and eat your own dick for 150 billion dollars? (This would make you the 4th richest person in the world)

[-] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 3 points 11 months ago

Relatively speaking, as an asexual, I can afford to lose a few orgasms.

[-] Lafari@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

Very good point. Are you also aromantic, if that's okay to ask? That is, some people are asexual but still enjoy engaging in romance just without the sexual stuff. Forgive me if I said this wrong

[-] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 2 points 11 months ago

I don't mind romance as long as it's not too imposing. I actually don't mind physical expression either, I just don't get anything out of it.

[-] deegeese@sopuli.xyz 3 points 11 months ago

Finasteride is a devil’s bargain.

[-] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 11 months ago

I mean, for some it's not...

[-] thelsim@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Please don't say neither (that's not an option)

Both?

Edit:
Ok, in all semi-seriousness, I like my hair and like to keep it. Sex is still fun without an orgasm.
I’m more of a giver than a taker anyway :)

[-] Lafari@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago
[-] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

This better not be a PFS thread. Be a man and get dutasteride, worked for Kutcher

[-] Lafari@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago

What's PFS? Google search showed multiple possibilities and I can't see how any are related to this

[-] Lafari@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Agreed on dut tho (semi, finasteride might be fine enough with lower risk of side effects)

[-] MonsiuerPatEBrown@reddthat.com 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Comparison is the thief of joy, eh ?

Both are alive.

Bald can be explained as "too much testosterone my hair was scared of my masculinity". But you need to mop up sweat constantly.

Losing sexual function can be tough but also freeing of binds that create lots of social disarray.

[-] Lafari@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago

Some straight edgers eschew sexual urges anyway.

[-] killeronthecorner@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago
[-] Lafari@lemmy.world 0 points 11 months ago
[-] gzrrt@kbin.social 1 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

Bald. Being bald looks cool, no shame in it whatsoever.

[-] Lafari@lemmy.world 1 points 11 months ago

Some can pull it off, some can't. Tbh

[-] revv@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 11 months ago

Define "properly."

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