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submitted 1 year ago by Damaskox@kbin.social to c/gaming@beehaw.org

Got the idea of posting this when I watched this YouTube video that talks about reasons men love playing as girls.

Why do you do it?
Are there more than one reason?
What do you enjoy about it the most?

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[-] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Sometimes.

Most of the time, I just make myself and I'm a guy. But in games where I am constantly making characters, like Elden Ring or something, I just slap the random button a bunch and whatever it gives me I accept.

Well... Fallout 2 I am always a woman because it makes dealing with the slaver leader a helluva lot easier.

[-] VulKendov@reddthat.com 4 points 1 year ago

Because female characters typically have better creation options, like hairstyles and outfits. I like to create and play characters that I find aestheticlly pleasing, as a straight guy that means mostly female characters. I do occasionally try to make an idealized version of myself though.

[-] Kbin_space_program@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

First did it in Kotor because the female PC had much more fun conversation choices with Bastilla(namely she'd be a catty bitch towards you and it was hilarious.)

Then in Elder Scrolls Oblivion because if you wanted to look good, all of the best looking clothing and armor was for CBBE body.

Mass Effect 1-3 because the female PC had better lines and better inflection on the sarcastic lines.

World of Warcraft as a blood elf because when I tried it for shits n giggles I made 25 gold in the first hour of play from people just throwing gold and items at me for no reason.

[-] OpenStars@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

Kotor also encouraged replays with all options so that you could try the variety of romance situations:-).

[-] Deceptichum@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

My only love is the star forge and an endless army under my command.

[-] OpenStars@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

But the anti-romance dialogues were pretty fun too... (choose one person, then the others get mad at u:-P)

[-] ExLisper@linux.community 4 points 1 year ago

I like the crossbow.

[-] Carter@feddit.uk 4 points 1 year ago

I usually go for incredibly inhumanly muscley male characters but occasionally play as a woman for variety.

[-] WeLoveCastingSpellz@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

If women get more clothing options than men, I sometimes play as a girl cuz fuck man I wanna wear a skirt other than that I tend to play as my gender which is a man.

[-] hemko@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 year ago

As some others have said, I'd way rather look at the cute female character over thousands of hours of playtime than some ugly dude

[-] Damaskox@kbin.social 4 points 1 year ago

ugly dude

Since there are customization options for males too - why would you choose an ugly person, if you wouldn't like to look at them?

[-] hemko@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 year ago

Don't take it literally

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[-] Kodemystic@lemmy.kodemystic.dev 4 points 1 year ago

Because we want to fuck it

[-] Coskii@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago

Depends on the game.

Monster hunter: they get the cute armor sets. Dudes get the fat armor sets, while that version of the lady armor is something like a mecha teddy bear.

Social games: I aim for the more gender neutral looks, and for whatever reason guys are almost always bulky. It's usually somewhat possible to get a female avatar to look guyish. And if it's using voice chat, there is very little question.

Online MMOs: I have set male and female character tropes/character types that have been developed for 20ish years at this point. Coskii is an axe welding merchant or as close to that as I can manage. My thief is a lady, archer is a guy, wizard is a guy, and sorcerer is lady.

Single player whatevers: it depends on the character sounds. Sometimes games can get a bit excessive with their sound design, and for whatever reason make the guy voice sound like he's constipated for every sound effect.

[-] freakrho@programming.dev 4 points 1 year ago

with male being the only option for years in most games, i started choosing female characters to get a different experience nowadays it depends on the game, sometimes i like the female voice better, sometimes it's about the romanceable characters and sometimes about the character design

[-] nickwitha_k@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 1 year ago

Depends on the game. Generally, I go with a male character that is somewhat like myself in appearance. The main reasons that I play a female character given the option are:

  • There is some difference in the game or story based on gender (ex. Games like CP2077, though, generally not in my first playthrough. Or, the voice talents of Jennifer Hale in Mass Effect.)
  • The male character was bodged in, unnecessarily (ex. AC: Odyssey, which wasn't even supposed to have a male lead until a sexist Ubisoft exec forced it - the dialog i, just awful)
  • Sometimes, it is just being a bit thirsty.
[-] mindyabeesnes@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago

Idk, might as well ask me why I listen to women pop singers and virtually no men. The only ones I do listen to are wearing wigs, makeup and heels. I see you, Adore Delano. lol

[-] hagelslager@feddit.nl 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I think of my characters in games as "stand alone", and I don't really care about the gender I'm playing as.

Specific reasons to play women:

  • Cyberpunk 2077: Judy Alvarez is more appealing to me than Panam Palmer. (Although I have to dig up my first playthrough (male V) since the Kerry Eurodyne questline seems to be good).
  • When I started playing Fortnite with some others, someone jokingly gave me the Heidi-skin. Except for certain quests, I keep using that skin.
[-] argh_another_username@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 year ago

I play both, so I can see the difference in quests, dialogues, romances, etc.

[-] Scary_le_Poo@beehaw.org 3 points 1 year ago
[-] Sabata11792@kbin.social 3 points 1 year ago

Bikini armor causes neuron activation.

[-] Tosti@feddit.nl 3 points 1 year ago

Especially when playing 3rd person games, I find that I enjoy looking at a woman more than at a man in. Also mostly I think the character customization is better.

[-] Fizz@lemmy.nz 3 points 1 year ago

I rarely play women in games because i like playing a oversized jacked warrior guy. I play women if a male of that class would look gay. Stuff like assassins, elementalists I always pick a women because the clothes look better and small build is more immersive to the role. But monk or healer I always pick a guy cause tall gigachad healer is funny.

[-] lexihexi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago

Gay buff gigachad healer would be great. Still remembering that male design for Mercy from Overwatch. Hot damn… 🤩

[-] tal@lemmy.today 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

There are some exceptions -- I like playing Nightmare, who is male, in the Soul Calibur series, due to his moveset -- but absent broader gameplay considerations coming up, I'll default to a female choice. I'd rather look at the female character through the course of the game.

considers

I play very few multiplayer games. The last time I was playing a 3D multiplayer game much was a long time ago, probably a Quake 2-based Team Fortress-style game, and then I played a male character, an engineer, because of his role.

I haven't played MUDs for ages, but there I generally played a male character.

Sometimes games attach some sort of gameplay benefits on a gender-basis (e.g. male or female characters have slightly different stats or characteristics), and then I'll sometimes choose the main character's gender based on that, but that's become less-common, maybe not politically-correct. Mount and Blade: Warband does that -- it's a medieval world and male and female characters have significantly-different roles there; there I'll play a male character. The Fallout series had a long tradition of having the Black Widow/Lady Killer perk work differently based on a character's gender; it's generally advantageous to play a female character there.

[-] cordlesslamp@lemmy.today 2 points 1 year ago

When the game allowed, I make my character to look like my then-gf (now my wife), and named it after her. Idk, I think she's cute and I would like to see her more.

Funny thing is I've never told her this and she have no idea why I always alt-tab out of my game when she walked by (she knows I'm not playing something that would upset her like a porn games or something like that because she can see what I'm playing from afar. She just can't see the character'name or details from that distance).

[-] tiredofsametab@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

I play a mix of characters. If they're voiced, I tend to prefer feminine voices. I think there are a number of reasons for this, but one practical one is that I just hear better in a higher range for whatever reason (and this gets more true the older I get). I have a much easier time hearing higher-pitched voices and generally find them more pleasant.

If they're not voiced, it depends upon if I'm role-playing something specific. If so, I'll pick whichever I think fits best. If not, I'll probably pick a female character just because I find them more pleasing to look at. I always wanted to go back and do a female V playthough of Cyberpunk, but I just never got around to it.

Years ago, in the early 2000s, I got in to MMOs with Final Fantasy XI. I played mostly female characters there because people were more likely to help out.

[-] BigVault@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

I started with the Black Widow fallout 3 perk figuring there world be more male characters than female when fighting.

https://fallout.fandom.com/wiki/Black_Widow_(Fallout_3)

EFFECTS
+10% damage against male opponents
Additional dialogue options with certain male characters

It stuck after that.

[-] Skua@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

Sometimes the ladies are just cooler, you know? I tend to just go with whatever I'm feeling on the day, and if the woman has a good voice lines or an interesting mechanic or whatever else then I guess I'm being a woman today

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