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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by BackOnMyBS@lemmy.world to c/autism@lemmy.world
 

Image: Two images almost identical to each other stacked vertically. The top one is the back of a neck of a person wearing a sweater with the tag sticking out. It is captioned "What it looks like". The bottom image is the exact same image but the sweater's tag has been replaced with a cactus. It is captioned "What it feels like".

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[–] aeronmelon@lemmy.world 47 points 1 year ago (4 children)

This isn't autism, this is universal.

[–] RedditWanderer@lemmy.world 27 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (2 children)

Like 80% of these autism/ADHD subs

[–] kattenluik@feddit.nl 4 points 1 year ago

The problem with tags is often amplified with Autism and a lot of neurotypicals do not struggle with this whatsoever, I don't know anyone who does.

I'd prefer more specific posts, but this post is fine.

[–] Zorque@kbin.social 2 points 1 year ago

I recall a post about resting your foot on its side while sitting in a chair meaning you're autistic.

I still don't know if that one was facetious or not.

[–] SomeAmateur@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Is Autism the new depression? People saying they totally have it when they are undiagnosed and mostly experiencing the same things as everyone else?

[–] Daxtron2@startrek.website 5 points 1 year ago

Not even close to true, most people I know don't remove tags

[–] shootwhatsmyname@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

There’s a huge difference between a tag bothering you throughout the day, and a tag completely destroying your ability to function.

[–] FollyDolly@lemmy.world 26 points 1 year ago (5 children)

I hate it when I cut the tag out but there's still tag material caught in the seam that I can't remove without undoing the seam. Arrggghh!

[–] scrion@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I cut it super close with a scalpel blade. So close in fact, that it might tear the seam. It's exhilarating, which is how I know I've grown old.

[–] BackOnMyBS@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I seriously wont buy a shirt if I can't rip the tag out so that there is nothing of it left while not damaging the shirt. I really wont.

Depends on the wool

[–] Rinox@feddit.it 6 points 1 year ago

Everyone should follow what Decathlon does, ie stitch the tag to a small piece of fabric, and then stitch the fabric to the garment. This way you can cut the tag away with a bit of fabric and the remaining fabric won't bother you.

I get in there with tweezers

[–] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 3 points 1 year ago

Thats why tag less is so popular. Thankfully tags nowadays are nowhere as bad as it used. it was horrible. I felt like cutting the tag back then only made it worse. Just a sharp jagged spike on my neck all day.

[–] voracitude@lemmy.world 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The advent of printing the tag onto the fabric of the shirt was literally life-changing for me, and I guess for at least a few of you guys too!

[–] Sombyr@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 year ago

I was ready to respond that I'm autistic and don't have this issue at all, but you made me realize none of my shirts even have tags and I'm just a dumbass.

[–] Australis13@fedia.io 12 points 1 year ago (1 children)

At least a tag I can fix.... A woollen jumper (aka woolen sweater for the US folks) is just a no-go. Too itchy.

[–] BackOnMyBS@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Or those shirts with print on them that is thick like a paste. Hell no! I am not wearing that.

[–] Downcount@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I was 30+ when my g/f showed me that it's totally okay to just cut them off. It still feels wrong, though.

[–] BackOnMyBS@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

Cutting them off isn't good enough for me and sometimes even makes it worse because the corners are now more rigid and prickly. If I can't tear the tag completely off, I am not buy the shirt.

[–] NounsAndWords@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But then how do you know if your shirt should be washed in warm or cold water!?

[–] bitchkat@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I wash all clothes on cold.

[–] FrostyCaveman@lemm.ee 8 points 1 year ago

I rip them out even if it damages the shirt a little bit.. (if it can’t be done without completely destroying it I just won’t buy it to begin with)

No idea who thinks it’s perfectly fine to add itchy scratchy annoying tags right where they’re most annoying!

[–] bitchkat@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

Doesn't everyone remove the tags?

[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

Sometimes I'm certain a tag or seam has rubbed my skin open to the point of bleeding bc it's just that painful and irritated, then I check the skin and it usually isn't even reddened and that makes me a teensy bit angry

[–] Skasi@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago

Not just the tags, also the seams. For some reason manufacturers tend to make the outside of clothes more comfortable to wear than the inside. The many tiny micro-cuts clothes produce are extra uncomfortable with allergies.

Just wear shirts inside out. Much nicer on the skin. Doesn't work well for clothes with zippers or pockets but usually those are reserved for outer layers anyway.