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What sort of post or comment gets you downvoted the most? Especially if you don't think it's bad behavior in the first place, or don't care. Does not have to be on Lemmy, but we are here... One of the good things about Lemmy IMO is that it's small enough to see the posts that are unpopular. If you do "Top Day" on most channels, you cash reach the bottom, see what people here don't like.
As far as comments, attempting to rebut the person who is telling me my post sucks, is what gets me into negative numbers most often. The OP is going to voite it down, of course, and nobody else cares, usually.

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[-] emptybamboo@midwest.social 3 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Anytime I mention something vaguely positive about religion. I'm a former religious studies scholar who studied comparative religions. I have two degrees in the subject. I don't think I'm saying anything controversial: the main thing I usually write is that you cannot usually say that a religion is a monolith - they are pretty complex phenomenon with many variations within them. You can say that Salafis are the totality of Islam. You can't say that evangelicals are the totality of Christianity. You can't say 969 in Burma is the totality of Buddhism. You can't say Hindutva is Hinduism. You can't say that the Settlers on the West Bank are the totality of Judaism. Religions without any variation or complexity usually die after a generation or two. I don't just have these arguments online, I am used to have them with students and with friends. But nuance has few safe harbors on the internet....

[-] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

I've simply said that while I don't consider myself particularly religious, I enjoy my church because of the wonderful friendships, the genuinely welcoming environment to all, and the sense of community it brings me, and all the boring atheists come out of the woodwork to herp at me. Like what do you care that I enjoy something? I'm not inviting you.

[-] Pat12@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

I got downvoted recently for saying "If you’re friends with someone, wouldn’t you want to know if they’re also friends with someone problematic?" and "I would definitely want to know if my friends were close with people who’d been in prison."

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[-] PhlubbaDubba@lemm.ee 3 points 9 months ago

Pointing out that the replies to this thread are loaded with centrists and conservatives who are big amgy that they aren't praised for their genius when they take their right wing and centrist PoV opinions to known leftist and tanky instances instead of neutral discussion spaces.

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[-] nac82@lemm.ee 3 points 9 months ago

Defending violence from the bland corporate talking points of non-violent resistance.

People will say the dumbest "violence is never the answer" and then get upset when you point out they clearly don't believe that.

[-] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

Violence is a tool, and it should be used when necessary

[-] nac82@lemm.ee 3 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

This statement is an immediate bannable offense in many places, but the 2nd amendment allows for firearm ownership. Many states have stand your ground or home defense laws supporting lethal home defense. In America, our founding is justified by the need for violent resistance against tyrannical governments.

I know these aren't directly contradictory things, but it feels like doublespeak, the way the topics are viewed.

[-] duffman@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

Any comment in regards to better personal budgeting gets down votes and the typical "avocado toast" response.

[-] WeLoveCastingSpellz@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

trashing OS'es that I hate namely Windows and IOS so far. I get that it comes off as elitism and fine with getting downvoted. If I am expressing myself like this, than other users express themselves by downvoting. Nothing wrong here.

[-] laverabe@lemmy.world 3 points 9 months ago

ok like 90% of Lemmy uses Linux. We know we all use linux, so when someone comes along and says something like "Windoze sucks, you should install Linux and free the penguin", 90% of your downvotes are coming from those Linux users who are facepalming at the futility.

It's like walking into a bar and yelling at the top of your lungs that everyone there should try alcohol, that it's way better than water.

[-] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 2 points 9 months ago

I cannot speak for my downvoters, but if one were to go by what people say, it boils down to my hypergraphia/vocabulary, my opinions/conclusions on certain topics, and often what seems like hate for me that spans multiple places and leaks over to wherever I am.

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[-] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago

No idea. I don't keep track

[-] siipale@sopuli.xyz 2 points 9 months ago

Apparently posting a very old meme that is funny because it's not funny. Also making a reference to something not many people know about, moaning about learning to use new software being waste of time (I don't understand what was the issue. Maybe I was off-topic), and having an opinion that Apple is any good.

[-] spittingimage@lemmy.world 2 points 9 months ago

Most recently? Pointing out that the Soviet Union were serious contenders in the space race.

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