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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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[–] DemBoSain@midwest.social 81 points 1 year ago (5 children)

When people tell me 'money doesn't buy happiness', I tell them 'it removes a lot of anxiety'.

These people don't have any anxiety anymore, and believe they can do anything. Most of the time they're right.

[–] alcoholicorn@lemmy.ml 44 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Money doesn't buy happiness, it's merely a pre-requisite for health, safety, freedom of movement, education, and social standing.

[–] Takios@feddit.de 10 points 1 year ago

health, safety, freedom of movement, education, and social standing

Which all contribute severely to your happiness.

[–] stoy@lemmy.zip 26 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Money can't buy happiness, this is true, but it sure buys a shitton of opportunities to feel happy....

[–] DillyDaily@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago

Plus a bunch of stuff that was illegal when you were poor suddenly becomes perfectly legal if you're rich enough to pay the associated fees.

I mean, sure the police call them "fines"...but still.

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Once your basic needs are met money can't really make you that much happier. They did a study on a bunch of people and they found that once you have all the needs met you can't buy happiness

[–] bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de 23 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Which means that until all your needs are met money actually does buy happiness.

[–] anonymouse 9 points 1 year ago

"Having money's not everything. Not having it is." -K. West

[–] GladiusB@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

Money doesn't buy happiness, but it does make it a helluva lot easier

[–] moistclump@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago

If money doesn’t buy happiness all I ask for is to have to learn this hard lesson for myself.

[–] malloc@lemmy.world 47 points 1 year ago

If you are poor with outlandish ideas, you are crazy. But if you are rich, then you are eccentric, entrepreneurial, or a maverick.

[–] Stern@lemmy.world 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

True. J.K. Rowling didn't have shit to say about trans people when she was on the dole.

[–] BorgDrone@lemmy.one 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Maybe she had shit to say but no one would care. There are plenty of nobodies with similarly crappy opinions but no one pays them any attention.

[–] Stern@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Insofar as I recall she wasn't TERF'y until well after the books and movies. Most folks could ding her for during that time period was the goblins and some character naming.

[–] BorgDrone@lemmy.one 8 points 1 year ago

Sure, but back then the whole issue didn’t get that much attention to begin with.

[–] snooggums@midwest.social 14 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Excessive amounts of money.

[–] themeatbridge@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Excessive is a different threshold for each person. For some, it's "so much that I've lost touch with the reality of human struggle." For others, it's "just enough so I can stop pretending I'm not a giant douche."

[–] HopeOfTheGunblade@kbin.social 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

It's less about the specific amount and more about the comparative relation. Having a lot more money than other people fucks you up; if you're interested in the specifics, Some More News did a dive into the literature on it, and they have citations.

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[–] AnonStoleMyPants@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 year ago

Yes, and for quite a few money doesn't even change anything. People are different.

[–] RickRussell_CA@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] adhdplantdev@lemm.ee 12 points 1 year ago

People use money to avoid hard work like introspection

[–] Kolli@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Do you all actually act sane or is there some nuance I don't understand?

You'd have to be mentally ill for that to be case, I think.

[–] fubbernuckin@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

To clarify, are you saying that you'd have to start off with some mental illness to be able to act like you didn't have it?

[–] Kolli@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Not sure if I'm stepping to a bait, but only insane people would have the need "to act sane", right?

[–] anonymouse 3 points 1 year ago

My unproven hypothesis is that everybody's a little nuts, just maybe not clinically so.

[–] fubbernuckin@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I'm not baiting, it just seemed like you might have been trying to call someone mentally ill and i was making sure that wasn't the case.

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think you need money to meet your basic needs. When it comes to really wealth people acting crazy it is usually just media overhype. If they are crazy it earned them a lot of money

Well I suppose like money craziness can be hereditary.

[–] AgentGrimstone@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I think at some point it makes people bored. The insanity is a way to stay entertained.